Relationships So, my entire family hate me, except my mother....... who barely tolerates me. Ees normaal?

[Home_Slice]

Anyone else in a similar position?

Having just come through Christmas, and attended another family event shortly thereafter, the reality is now blindingly obvious.

Basically every member of my family seem to resent the hell out of me, and use every possible opportunity to be silently obnoxious as possible.

I have two sisters whose husbands positively hate me, always have, and by extension, my siblings hate me.

My father never liked me but I didn't care but now he seems to be expressing his dislike more openly.

By extension, my mother spends only the minimum amount of time around me, as my father seems to interpret any more than that as him being ignored.
Plus both parents have one foot in the grave.

Is what it is.

But Jebus, I always thought it was only "other people" that would find themselves in this type of situation.

 

[LEWIS540]

Why?

Any rational person would come to the conclusion that that they were the problem in this situation.

 

[Sonny Qc]

Maybe it's you and not everybody else?

 

[Brigfa2]

Man i've read this long ass text to learn the reason of them hating you but you wasted my time for nothing. I agree with your family!

 

[Get To Da Choppa]

Anyone else in a similar position?

Having just come through Christmas, and attended another family event shortly thereafter, the reality is now blindingly obvious.

Basically every member of my family seem to resent the hell out of me, and use every possible opportunity to be silently obnoxious as possible.

I have two sisters whose husbands positively hate me, always have, and by extension, my siblings hate me.

My father never liked me but I didn't care but now he seems to be expressing his dislike more openly.

By extension, my mother spends only the minimum amount of time around me, as my father seems to interpret any more than that as him being ignored.
Plus both parents have one foot in the grave.

Is what it is.

But Jebus, I always thought it was only "other people" that would find themselves in this type of situation.

They hating because you are a 6'5'' 270 pound muscular Sherdogger. Amp up what you are doing now and eventually they'll be so in awe of your aura they'll have no choice but admire you

 

[Gutter Chris]

Anyone else in a similar position?

Having just come through Christmas, and attended another family event shortly thereafter, the reality is now blindingly obvious.

Basically every member of my family seem to resent the hell out of me, and use every possible opportunity to be silently obnoxious as possible.

I have two sisters whose husbands positively hate me, always have, and by extension, my siblings hate me.

My father never liked me but I didn't care but now he seems to be expressing his dislike more openly.

By extension, my mother spends only the minimum amount of time around me, as my father seems to interpret any more than that as him being ignored.
Plus both parents have one foot in the grave.

Is what it is.

But Jebus, I always thought it was only "other people" that would find themselves in this type of situation.

Allright, out with it now ....why do all of these people hate you?

 

[Lycandroid]

let me guess is it because you always tell long winded stories that never have a conclusion ?

 

[Home_Slice]

They hating because you are a 6'5'' 270 pound muscular Sherdogger. Amp up what you are doing now and eventually they'll be so in awe of your aura they'll have no choice but admire you

Wow.

This guy gets it.

lol

Seriously though.......... how is it you get it?

Cause this is basically what's happening (though I doubt they'll ever be in awe of me).

 

[Cool Hand Luke]

Anyone else in a similar position?

Nope, just you brah.

 

[Crazy Source]

 

[Home_Slice]

Allright, out with it now ....why do all of these people hate you?

They resent me.

My sisters were wanna-be Diva's in their youth who couldn't pull it off (though they have great and well paid jobs and families).
Their husbands were virgins before they met them, now they're skinny dorks with devastating inferiority complexes.

My father was a poof in another life (though again, respectable, never abusive, always worked etc).

My mother is a bit of a nutter but on some level, my being the only son, she has a soft spot for me somewhere (again, worked all her life though, good lifestyle etc).

Me?

Dude above said it right. I'm stacked, jacked, chicks love me (sometimes love to hate me), I go against their conventional "family value" grain. I'm all about my hair and my muscles and being stacked and the object of many women's sexual desire.

They just hate me. I'm that guy they hate.

I lived with an old Asian woman one time, horrible ugly fatty. She HATED me, burning hatred.
But one time in the living room she was basically masturbating whilst staring at me.

It's creepy as fuck, but it's that kind of vibe.

 

[Contempt]

Don't worry sherbro... we hate you too.

Spoiler

j/k ...or am i?

 

[LEWIS540]

They resent me.

My sisters were wanna-be Diva's in their youth who couldn't pull it off (though they have great and well paid jobs and families).
Their husbands were virgins before they met them, now they're skinny dorks with devastating inferiority complexes.

My father was a poof in another life (though again, respectable, never abusive, always worked etc).

My mother is a bit of a nutter but on some level, my being the only son, she has a soft spot for me somewhere (again, worked all her life though, good lifestyle etc).

Me?

Dude above said it right. I'm stacked, jacked, chicks love me (sometimes love to hate me), I go against their conventional "family value" grain. I'm all about my hair and my muscles and being stacked and the object of many women's sexual desire.

They just hate me. I'm that guy they hate.

I lived with an old Asian woman one time, horrible ugly fatty. She HATED me, burning hatred.
But one time in the living room she was basically masturbating whilst staring at me.

It's creepy as fuck, but it's that kind of vibe.

LOL

Yeah, it's definitely you.

Weak men think they are being strong by dismissing (valid) criticism.

 

[Sonny Qc]

They resent me.

My sisters were wanna-be Diva's in their youth who couldn't pull it off (though they have great and well paid jobs and families).
Their husbands were virgins before they met them, now they're skinny dorks with devastating inferiority complexes.

My father was a poof in another life (though again, respectable, never abusive, always worked etc).

My mother is a bit of a nutter but on some level, my being the only son, she has a soft spot for me somewhere (again, worked all her life though, good lifestyle etc).

Me?

Dude above said it right. I'm stacked, jacked, chicks love me (sometimes love to hate me), I go against their conventional "family value" grain. I'm all about my hair and my muscles and being stacked and the object of many women's sexual desire.

They just hate me. I'm that guy they hate.

I lived with an old Asian woman one time, horrible ugly fatty. She HATED me, burning hatred.
But one time in the living room she was basically masturbating whilst staring at me.

It's creepy as fuck, but it's that kind of vibe.

Yeah, I get your family now.

 

[Natural Order]

Your parents are embarrassed with themselves for raising a superficial tomato can. That's my best guess.

 

[Sonny Qc]

Must sucks tho,
I'm the favorites in mine.

 

[Contempt]

Must sucks tho,
I'm the favorites in mine.

Me too... only one still alive so I win by default

 

[Sonny Qc]

Me too... only one still alive so I win by default

it's like having sex with a girl who passed out,
still count.

 

[Lycandroid]

so your equally full of shit as you are full of yourself ?

deadly combination

 

[Why did you]

i hope the next thread will not be sherbros-and-my-entire-family-hate-me-except-my-mother-who-barely-tolerates-me-ees-normaa : )