Sean O'Malley talks about his open relationship with his GF

[Karuzo]

ok, cool man. i bid you good fortune in that pursuit. we are all free to do as we please. i would just caution you to realize that you're in the minority, and just to not feel defensive when the majority disagree with you.

Yeah, I'm aware.

I've never been much of a sheep.

I try to think for myself and come to my own conclusions, instead of just accepting whatever society says the norm is.

 

[Finding Deebo]

People cheat because there is no stigma or actual penalty for doing it. Its simply a mere inconvenience in one's small circle of friends and a personal issue between the couple. As our societies focus on rampant individuality and personal freedom, it becomes more and more difficult to think of eachother or the group. Everyone is just super selfish and self centered.

Good Post. Divided we fall...

 

[ThePatriot]

That's what an "open relationship" is.

You have been indoctrinated by religion and society to feel jealousy when someone fucks a girl you like, most of us are indoctrinated in ways we don't even realize.

We are animals, animals are not made to be monogamous.

Are animals not allowed to be jealous?

When I pick a squeeky toy up off the floor and squeek it, my dog wants it

Did I indoctrinate him?

 

[Humongo]

That's what an "open relationship" is.

You have been indoctrinated by religion and society to feel jealousy when someone fucks a girl you like, most of us are indoctrinated in ways we don't even realize.

We are animals, animals are not made to be monogamous.

Except there are monogamous animals. I guess they've been indoctrinated, too.

 

[Karuzo]

Except there are monogamous animals. I guess they've been indoctrinated, too.

Maybe there are in rare cases, but humans certainly did not evolve to be monogamous.

If you look at our closest relatives in chimps and bonobos, they are far from monogamous.

Just the fact that so many people cheat shows that humans are not biologically monogamous.

Just the fact that my brain goes "I wanna fuck her. And I wanna fuck her. And I wanna fuck her. And I wanna fuck her." with every 3rd female I pass by on the street, shows we are not wired to be monogamous.

 

[Karuzo]

Are animals not allowed to be jealous?

When I pick a squeeky toy up off the floor and squeek it, my dog wants it

Did I indoctrinate him?

How is that jealousy? Based on the example you gave, you don't even seem to understand what jealousy is.

 

[ThePatriot]

How is that jealousy? Based on the example you gave, you don't even seem to understand what jealousy is.

Its an amazing example

 

[Karuzo]

Its an amazing example

The dog isn't jealous of you for having the toy, he just wants to play with the toy.

How does that example relate to jealousy in relationships?

 

[EXOICHO]

The dog isn't jealous of you for having the toy, he just wants to play with the toy.

How does that example relate to jealousy in relationships?

Are you implying romantic jealousy was invented by abrahamic religion?

 

[Karuzo]

Are you implying romantic jealousy was invented by abrahamic religion?

Not exclusively, but it definitely played its part in convincing people that another person "belongs" to them.

 

[EXOICHO]

Not exclusively, but it definitely played its part in convincing people that another person "belongs" to them.

You realize cave men would literally club women and drag them back to their dwellings so that the woman couldnt leave right?

Sexual possession is human nature at its core

 

[Humongo]

Maybe there are in rare cases, but humans certainly did not evolve to be monogamous.

If you look at our closest relatives in chimps and bonobos, they are far from monogamous.

Just the fact that so many people cheat shows that humans are not biologically monogamous.

Just the fact that my brain goes "I wanna fuck her. And I wanna fuck her. And I wanna fuck her. And I wanna fuck her." with every 3rd female I pass by on the street, shows we are not wired to be monogamous.

I'm not arguing that humans can't be polygamous, just the argument "animals do whatever, so humans must do it" is stupid.

 

[Karuzo]

I'm not arguing that humans can't be polygamous, just the argument "animals do whatever, so humans must do it" is stupid.

Humans are literally an animal.

 

[Karuzo]

You realize cave men would literally club women and drag them back to their dwellings so that the woman couldnt leave right?

Sexual possession is human nature at its core

Um, provide proof?

 

[EXOICHO]

Humans are literally an animal.

Right.. and so are frogs and mosquitos. But we dont justify or base logic on "we can jump because a frog jumps".

You are a free thinker to be sure, but most of that emphasis is on free rather than thinker.

 

[TheAmericanGazelle]

It's always amusing watching poly/open relationship/cuckold "men" pretend to be oh-so-wise and enlightened when everyone knows the real reason they are in these relationships is because they are forced into it, owing to their inability to attract a high-value mater in a monogamous setting (it's not a coincidence the poly community is overwhelming obese on average), mental illness, and having a violent foaming-at-the-mouth rage to anything with a religious or traditional values bent. The majority of them have pornography addictions as well, while being chronic masterbators.

The mental gymnastics and ego-protection are equal parts funny and sad.

 

[Karuzo]

Right.. and so are frogs and mosquitos. But we dont justify or base logic on "we can jump because a frog jumps".

You are a free thinker to be sure, but most of that emphasis is on free rather than thinker.

What does this even mean? What is your argument here, you literally are saying nothing.

Also, I am still waiting on your proof that cavemen used to club cavewomen and trap them in their cave.

You realize humans always lived in groups, right? Humans were never a solitary animal, males and females lived together in groups since the beginning of humanity.

 

[Humongo]

Humans are literally an animal.

I mean, are you stupid or something? Animals do a lot of things, saying "most animals do this, so humans are made for this" is a retarded argument.

 

[Karuzo]

I mean, are you stupid or something? Animals do a lot of things, saying "most animals do this, so humans are made for this" is a retarded argument.

That's not what I said, I said chimps and bonobos, our closest relatives are not monogamous. Neither are most mammals.

So why would humans be?

 

[Humongo]

That's not what I said, I said chimps and bonobos, our closest relatives are not monogamous. Neither are most mammals.

So why would humans be?

chimps are agressive and bonobos are not. It could be just chance that they are both monogamous and we could be the exception (wich I'm not saying we are). The argument is still stupid.