Then going with Torrance option would suit you best with your majority.
I already explained the limitations of training with strikes. It is not that great.
You are just larping and in real life you would get demolished.
Instead of larping for 3 hours per week with your training partner throwing fake haymakers and using your skills.
Train sparring BJJ for real under sport rules or just become a mma fighter and spar mma.
Why would I throw hymakers? I do train MMA, and I train "bjj with strikes" as "mma on the ground", and believe me, you DO notice the difference... It forces you to adapt your techniques to strikes, leting go of those that let you more exposed,etc... It all becomes more about clinching than creating space... It's a very different game and if you have rolled with strikes you know it.
What I feel sometimes is that people felt in love with "bjj with strikes" but they are just afraid to roll that way..., so they decide to take the "scary" part out and call that jiu jitsu aswell... Let's just call it sport jiu jitsu and be done with it, because it clearly is not the same thing... it just isn't... I don't care much about the bear hug kind of things, but rolling without strikes? That is not jiu jitsu, it's a different and still fun thing to do, but just don't call two different things by the same name, because it's confusing for retards like me who think you shouldn't get your blue belt until you've survived at least a round with somebody trying to punch and kick you...
I'm not a self defense guy, I'm more of an MMA guy I guess, so don't tell me about throwing haymakers or bringing pistols and katanas to class, I don't care about that, but rolling with strikes should be mandatory, and the Torrance guys do that where most gyms nowadays don't... so congrats to them!