I agree with everything you said.
It's just that I don't see myself as a competitor in a game where the prize is pussy.I am what I am.I don't try to "win" pussy at all.That's why I never had too much girls even though they wanted me.
If a requirement for having pussy is beating on my big monkey chest then I would pass.
The thing of competition is that exist,no matter you accept it or not
Is not something you jump in
Usually is put in the middle like an obstacle between you and what/who you want
You want a specific girl?
Probably is because have features that make her desirable
If you see these features other males see it too, and in a overpopulated society for a desirable female usually you have automatically a lot of competitors (from the life-time worshipper, to the dude that meet her 10 min at day during coffee time, to the stranger that do his move one night at the club and win or disappear forever :icon_chee )
And no need to gorilla-beat-chest, direct competition tend to look retard and childish when you're over 20 years old
But when you grow up competition don't disappear, just become indirect
You try to start something with her without give a flying fuck about the other dude, you not even know that exist another runner in the race... still when she chose you, you've unawares won the competition
All is nature :icon_chee