I lost my 5 month old little girl in April, and don't obviously put myself out there like this... but Joe needs to take as much time as HE needs. It's different for everyone. Being a fighter takes more than just training, and anyone in the forum who actually fights would know that. Joe, in case you read this, just keep it together brother. No one feels exactly what you feel, but many can relate to it and have had a crippling loss like yours. No real words of wisdom.....just hang in there and stay busy. Peace.