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I decry incels and I definitely do not share any common views with them. I think many are just whiny cunts who were babied too much and need to go out and learn how to succeed and how to fail.
They’re the same guys who use aim bots and other mods in online games. They’re so afraid of failing because they have never learned to put anything on the line and deal with the consequences of doing so, whether that is success or failure. In fact, guys who cheat in online games are the perfect analogy and probably the same demographic.
They can only participate if the deck is stacked in their favor. Otherwise they might be made to look foolish. And they certainly have never put the time and effort in to become really good at something.
I mean you do have a lot of men lacking in confidence with women and/plus those who have standards raised too high by the media but I wouldn't say these mens are incels. That's a much more specific movement that's marked out by its misogynistic nature and again I think mirrors the viewpoints of quite a few Sherdoggers(wasn't directed at you) who themselves seem obcessed with Incels just as people who fail the Jordan Peterson "tidy you room" test.
The case of these incels I'm guessing the main reason theer single isn't that there bad looking, poor, lacking in confidence, etc its that there assholes. We get talk of "nice guys finishing last" from them but I see very little evidence of many generally nice people so its probably more a question of "she saw though my niceguy act".