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I'd like to hear the purpose of your desire to teach your child these techniques. A person that small doesn't have to strength to slap a submission on someone who can actually hurt her or would actually want to hurt her. The best thing that can happen is that another 3-5 year old and her will be playing and then if it gets physical she will not get hurt. That's the best thing that can come from it. The worst possible outcome is that she kills another kid and grows up all kinds of fucked up because she murdered someone at 3 years old, and you are sitting your ass in prison because of what you showed her.
With all of that said, i strongly support teaching your children JiuJitsu...with this caveat: Teach them no submissions until they are old enough to realize what happens when you use them. Judge for yourself when this is, but i can't see it happening before the age of 7 or 8.
I want my children to be able to protect themselves in any situation, but i have to consider what those situations might actually be. The possibility that your kid will ever be attacked by a child molester or something is very slim. The idea that at that age she has the strength to pull off a triangle or armlock against someone trying to offend her is absurd. She will just get herself hurt FAR worse.
For a living, i manage a group home for teenage sexual offenders. I can guarantee you that what she is learning will do her absolutely no good in self defense against these perpetrators until she is strong enough to put some force behind the moves. Think about it: can she really make you tap if you actually give her the choke or armlock? NO. You can just fall on her and she will let go and break a few bones. I can also guarantee you that if a molester tries to hurt her, he will do so whether or not she knows a choke or armlock. He will be undeterred by her attempts because she lacks the strength to use them.
This is a recipe for disaster. Teach her about the positions if you want her to get a headstart in the sport. Any worthless fuck can pick up the submissions later, it's the positioning that really counts. Teach her about balance, base, leg control, leverage, etc. If you care THAT much, teach her simple stuff like elbow escapes and passing the guard, or the Upa bridge roll. Teach her sweeps. Leave the takedowns until she is maybe 6 or so. Then work in the subs when she hits 8.
I hope that you find a way to take her focus off of these techniques by teaching her the positions/techniques discussed in the paragraph above. If not, i pray that she doesn't injure someone thinking that it's just a game.
Please take this seriously. Someone else's child could get hurt.
edit: i don't want this to come across as if i don't think you are taking this seriously. You wouldn't have asked if you didnt' care. You didn't come on here bragging, you posted with a question. I'm sure you will do what is right. I hope that my post helps you make your decisions. (And i look forward to seeing your child compete in a few years.)
With all of that said, i strongly support teaching your children JiuJitsu...with this caveat: Teach them no submissions until they are old enough to realize what happens when you use them. Judge for yourself when this is, but i can't see it happening before the age of 7 or 8.
I want my children to be able to protect themselves in any situation, but i have to consider what those situations might actually be. The possibility that your kid will ever be attacked by a child molester or something is very slim. The idea that at that age she has the strength to pull off a triangle or armlock against someone trying to offend her is absurd. She will just get herself hurt FAR worse.
For a living, i manage a group home for teenage sexual offenders. I can guarantee you that what she is learning will do her absolutely no good in self defense against these perpetrators until she is strong enough to put some force behind the moves. Think about it: can she really make you tap if you actually give her the choke or armlock? NO. You can just fall on her and she will let go and break a few bones. I can also guarantee you that if a molester tries to hurt her, he will do so whether or not she knows a choke or armlock. He will be undeterred by her attempts because she lacks the strength to use them.
This is a recipe for disaster. Teach her about the positions if you want her to get a headstart in the sport. Any worthless fuck can pick up the submissions later, it's the positioning that really counts. Teach her about balance, base, leg control, leverage, etc. If you care THAT much, teach her simple stuff like elbow escapes and passing the guard, or the Upa bridge roll. Teach her sweeps. Leave the takedowns until she is maybe 6 or so. Then work in the subs when she hits 8.
I hope that you find a way to take her focus off of these techniques by teaching her the positions/techniques discussed in the paragraph above. If not, i pray that she doesn't injure someone thinking that it's just a game.
Please take this seriously. Someone else's child could get hurt.
edit: i don't want this to come across as if i don't think you are taking this seriously. You wouldn't have asked if you didnt' care. You didn't come on here bragging, you posted with a question. I'm sure you will do what is right. I hope that my post helps you make your decisions. (And i look forward to seeing your child compete in a few years.)