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Ill get my girl some flowers, but I get all the sex I need anyway. I have a great aex life. I've been called a sex God.
NOTHING for Valentine's Day
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Same. Except 15 and 18 years. We might go out for a family meal but meh.
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Is this your first day here? It's ALWAYS been this way.
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I don't think I've ever bought a girl anything for valentines or any holiday for that matter. If I want you to have something I'll just get it. I'm not waiting on some day to be pressured into buying something
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We get down all the time sir, and everything is on the menu any day, feb 14th included.
That's the whole point, no need to limit or tie things to just one day for a healthy relationship, and to a certain extent any gesture on that day is bullshit anyway because it was/is prompted rather than sincere.
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I agree about that. Feb 14 should be every Saturday night. I hate Christmas also.
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Depends on a lot of things.
How a woman would handle such a gesture would probably tell you a lot about the strength and status of a relationship.
Early on in a relationship, I doubt it would go over well. People still have their guard up, they are still vulnerable and still formulating their image of their partner and the level of commitment and likely duration of the union.
30 years into a rock solid healthy loving relationship, in which you have already been thru LIFE, stress, success, failure, LOSS, illness, adventure...
who gives a shit about the day where disconnected men need to be reminded for ONE stinking day to make their woman feel special? If you don't make her feel special the other 364 days then how legitimate or sincere could a prompted mandatory gesture even be?
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"If you have a woman who is going to get overly upset at you if you don't buy the bitch some flowers then just buy the bitch some flowers."
by all means, buy the bitch some flowers.
that was the basic sentiment I was looking to encapsulate when I said
"if this is your only shot at getting your annual half assed blowjob then by all means don't fuck it up!!
Get that half assed BJ!
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Yeah definitely if it's early you should try to make it special. Some women, or probably most women, have this idea of romance and 2/14 being their special day. I know a lot of women who start talking about Valentine's day as early as December and you just know they are expecting at least some effort on that day.Depends on a lot of things.
How a woman would handle such a gesture would probably tell you a lot about the strength and status of a relationship.
Early on in a relationship, I doubt it would go over well. People still have their guard up, they are still vulnerable and still formulating their image of their partner and the level of commitment and likely duration of the union.
30 years into a rock solid healthy loving relationship, in which you have already been thru LIFE, stress, success, failure, LOSS, illness, adventure...
who gives a shit about the day where disconnected men need to be reminded for ONE stinking day to make their woman feel special? If you don't make her feel special the other 364 days then how legitimate or sincere could a prompted mandatory gesture even be?
________________________
"If you have a woman who is going to get overly upset at you if you don't buy the bitch some flowers then just buy the bitch some flowers."
by all means, buy the bitch some flowers.
that was the basic sentiment I was looking to encapsulate when I said
"if this is your only shot at getting your annual half assed blowjob then by all means don't fuck it up!!
Get that half assed BJ!
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I hate Valentine's Day. Romance should be spontaneous or at the very least not forced. It's a racket to overcharge for flowers and pack out restaurants. Luckily my wife doesn't care that much it's my busy season for work and she's understanding. We got trips planned for May, June, and July so I will definitely plan some nice romantic moments on those trips.
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The wife and I don’t exchange Valentines, Birthday or Christmas gifts. Lol.
We have a great relationship. We travel twice a year and are pretty good about not pissing money away. We’re not uptight about it. We just see so many people in debt to their eyeballs and complaining about it. We don’t want to live like that.
We have a great relationship. We travel twice a year and are pretty good about not pissing money away. We’re not uptight about it. We just see so many people in debt to their eyeballs and complaining about it. We don’t want to live like that.
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No relationship, no prospect, and still, I do not care. I’m not ever doing Valentine’s Day again.
Juice ain’t worth the squeeze, even when I was in a relationship. It’s always taken for granted. Fuck love and Valentine’s Day.
Yours truly, a bitter prick
Juice ain’t worth the squeeze, even when I was in a relationship. It’s always taken for granted. Fuck love and Valentine’s Day.
Yours truly, a bitter prick
