Give the Finnish Deadlift routine a try. I had the best results from deads when I did a lot of volume work, ie 10's and doing things like bent leg deadlifts, deadlifts off blocks as well as a lot of barbell rows and limited deadlifts to maybe once every three weeks with a bit more as a contest approaches. You get the workload needed to get strong, but you dont dig into your CNS reserves (whatever that means) with the frequent heavy deadlifts.
Let me give you an analogy--for you wrestlers. when I wrestled competitively, I could train for 2-3 hours and much of that was live type wrestling--we trained hard ( and I had an insane partner that I was paired up with) but it never really wiped me out, in other words, I was tired at the end of the workout, but after a shower and dinner, I was good to go. However we would go to tournaments on weekends and i would wrestle 3-4 times and usually the first two were relatively easy because of the seedings and then I would have a tough semi-final and then an absolute battle in the final--and at the end of that I was done...would go home, sleep, get up, go to church and just about sleep through the entire service, come home, eat, nap and really did not want to do anything for the entire day--never really felt normal until maybe Tuesday. So my point is that when deadlifting heavy, its sort of like that, its all out, you really cant hold anything back, but if you are doing a lot of volume training and you get the strength and development, but it leaves you somewhat fresh for all of the squatting and benching you have to do. In addition, it saves the lower back, which is the prime factor to consider when planning your training
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