New York Magazine's new cover story on Incels

[dissectingaorticaneurysm]

it doesnt quite work that way,

to give affection you have to be accepted and not rejected like these guys are usually because of looks or character or they lack "that something" like girls like to say here (nobody knows what the fuck that is lol)

basically if you miss out on school/teenage love then shit starts to roll downhill very fast(and at that age everyone is stupid as fuck so its not entirely your fault if you miss out)

this coming from a guy whose country is the incel central of europe, our birthrates are worse than japans (according to news yesterday) and i come from a village where every fourth or fifth guy got themself a mail order bride.

i know exactly how these guys think

you are right about the fact that you cant demand affection but that doesnt change the fact that lack of it fucks up your head

(please note im not defending these guys just opening up the thought process a bit)

So if there's so many Finnish males becoming incel, what are the women up to? Are they all sharing the village Chad?

 

[Cole train]

So if there's so many Finnish males becoming incel, what are the women up to? Are they all sharing the village Chad?

No they bounce to capital and from there out of finland.

Like 70 percent of peeps leaving finland are women.

Our birthrates are worse than japans and even worse than expected (big topic in our news because in future there simply wont be any people to uphold our society if this direction continues)

 

[Only Here for Attachments]

Just like with transgenders, surgery won't fix the numerous personality defects and mental illnesses these people have

 

[dissectingaorticaneurysm]

No they bounce to capital and from there out of finland.

Like 70 percent of peeps leaving finland are women.

Our birthrates are worse than japans and even worse than expected (big topic in our news because in future there simply wont be any people to uphold our society if this direction continues)

well on the bright side, it's not the lowest in Europe yet. Spain and Greece are still lower. Where are the women leaving to? I've never seen them here in America, while I see plenty of Polish and Russian arrivals.

 

[Cole train]

well on the bright side, it's not the lowest in Europe yet. Spain and Greece are still lower. Where are the women leaving to? I've never seen them here in America, while I see plenty of Polish and Russian arrivals.

Scandinavia,germany france spain italy etc

Basically anywhere in western europe america is too hard to get into (otherwise i would go to yanks myself lol)

 

[IIIIIIII]

I tend to agree.


But confidence is a matter of having succesful experiences in the past to draw that confidence from, if you are plus 20 and havent dated its pretty hard to be confident.

And plus 25 its pretty much done, its game over

Yes there are guys with nothing to lose attitude about this but they are a minority.

i don't think it's ever too late to learn how to attract women. a bit of success for guys may be the first domino in a long line of dominoes for them. the key is in putting yourself out there, and accepting the worst. the worst is never that bad, and it's something anyone can overcome.

 

[Feniamin]

Russia is on a whole other level

It wasn't until recently why i realized virtually everyone has dash cams there. All you have to do is look up Russian Vehicle Crashes comps on YouTube, and holy shit. They drive like they're in Afghanistan over there, it's wild

I actually tried to go to St. Petersburg in 2013 but got No Go'd by the US State Dept b/c of the Crimea bullshit. Same w/ Istanbul, and Morroco/Algeria/Egypt b/c of Arab Spring

But Crimean bullshit happened in 2014. Seems like we have a sensation here - 'Murrican government knew about Russia's plans.

 

[SammyPops]

Not sure off hand if it's proven definitively, but apparently soy products induce the body to react in a way that produces estrogens.

I don't have my scientific hat on today sorry.

It seems legit for sure. One reason why Asian men have such small wangs. Too much tofu during their teens and stuff like that.

Make whore legal and safe, and the entire incel problem is solved.

You're welcome world.

 

[Deleted member 110072]

Just like with transgenders, surgery won't fix the numerous personality defects and mental illnesses these people have

Honestly this seems more like the "Alpha" side although obviously body building mostly rather than having sugery to look like a slightly androgynous model, the incel side has a lot of the same mentality but is typically not very focused on even very superficial self improvement.

It seems legit for sure. One reason why Asian men have such small wangs. Too much tofu during their teens and stuff like that.

Make whore legal and safe, and the entire incel problem is solved.

You're welcome world.

I suspect its genetic, most of the east Asian population is descended from genetic stock from further north, a small nob less likely to freeze off hunting mammoths at minus 20 c.

 

[SammyPops]

Honestly this seems more like the "Alpha" side although obviously body building mostly rather than having sugery to look like a slightly androgynous model, the incel side has a lot of the same mentality but is typically not very focused on even very superficial self improvement.



I suspect its genetic, most of the east Asian population is descended from genetic stock from further north, a small nob less likely to freeze off hunting mammoths at minus 20 c.

Na bro. Those hunters just covered up their wangs with furs and stuff.

Its all about hormones during puberty.

And genetics.

 

[Deleted member 110072]

Too much soy, thats their problem!

This whole narrative that any form of masculinity is "toxic" really pisses me off!

So many things wrong in teh world yet masculinity isnt one of them!

As I'v said before whilst there are obviously real issues here I think a lot of the media on both sides are creating a deliberate sideshow, both to get themselves attension/money and to distract from larger issues.

Hence why we get such focus on irrelevant shit like "manspreading" and generally trying to cast every issue in partisan lines. If you were talking about real "Toxic Masculinity" that negatively effects the most people then perhaps attension would be better focused on our social/political model based on greed and ego above everything.

 

[D Train]

These are like normal looking dudes. Not models, but should be able to get girls.
Just yesterday I checked out some Reddits for incels as I had no real knowledge about them and my mind was blown by how angry these guys are. Of course no woman wants to date them, they come off as desperate, angry, entitled, and somehow arrogant all at the same time. Handsome or not, That’s a terrible combination of attributes.
It really was a glimpse into a different culture.