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New TikTok trend: women poking fun at letting themselves go after finding partners

If you need social media to get laid, you lack real life social interaction skills. Its much more satisfying meeting someone IRL and engaging in a relationship from there VS. meeting on an app.

How old are you?

Yeah you can meet them in real life but when they ask for your social media and you are like "I dont do social media" all they hear is "Im unpopular, dont have many friends" and its a massive turn off to them.
 
How old are you?

Yeah you can meet them in real life but when they ask for your social media and you are like "I dont do social media" all they hear is "Im unpopular, dont have many friends" and its a massive turn off to them.
28. I dont have social media, most women have told me they find it refreshing.
 
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28. I dont have social media, most women tel me they find it refreshing.

@Drain Bamage

This is a topic that you two will never agree on. I say this as someone who has zero personal social media accounts haha.

My brother is like @Drain Bamage in that he feels he needs social media to date/fuck. He even used to watch Vine videos just so he could fit in more with girls. I'm the opposite, and stay away from social media because people want me to be on it haha. In my experience, it doesn't matter, though certain guys I'm familiar with use Insta as their main "dating/hookup" site, so it definitely has uses. The potential reach with social media is way beyond Tinder and other actual dating sites. Though I'm only speaking here based on *their* experience.

This all said, doing anything just to fit in is weak as fuck.
 
@Drain Bamage

This is a topic that you two will never agree on. I say this as someone who has zero personal social media accounts haha.

My brother is like @Drain Bamage in that he feels he needs social media to date/fuck. He even used to watch Vine videos just so he could fit in more with girls. I'm the opposite, and stay away from social media because people want me to be on it haha. In my experience, it doesn't matter, though certain guys I'm familiar with use Insta as their main "dating/hookup" site, so it definitely has uses. The potential reach with social media is way beyond Tinder and other actual dating sites. Though I'm only speaking here based on *their* experience.

This all said, doing anything just to fit in is weak as fuck.
Im not saying that it cant help you date; it can. But it isn't a necessity, its simply a tool.
 


Off-topic, but the sexualization of young girls on TikTok is heartbreaking. I'm talking about 10 and 11 year old girls twerking and dancing sexually while wearing revealing clothing.

The saddest part is many of these girls feel they have to do this to fit in, since their peer group expects this of them now. Reason #1002 why it's better to be highly disagreeable haha.
 
@Drain Bamage

This is a topic that you two will never agree on. I say this as someone who has zero personal social media accounts haha.

My brother is like @Drain Bamage in that he feels he needs social media to date/fuck. He even used to watch Vine videos just so he could fit in more with girls. I'm the opposite, and stay away from social media because people want me to be on it haha. In my experience, it doesn't matter, though certain guys I'm familiar with use Insta as their main "dating/hookup" site, so it definitely has uses. The potential reach with social media is way beyond Tinder and other actual dating sites. Though I'm only speaking here based on *their* experience.

This all said, doing anything just to fit in is weak as fuck.

Actually I'm 38 and don't really do social media at all anymore. I'm pretty much aged out of the type of woman I would aggressively pursue to just have sex with (18-24 year olds) and am more looking for a wife with a great personality at this point in my life. I don't think social media is as important when looking for a wife as it is when you are just trying to fuck young hot chicks, who we all know are pretty much obsessed with social media.
 
Actually I'm 38 and don't really do social media at all anymore. I'm pretty much aged out of the type of woman I would aggressively pursue to just have sex with (18-24 year olds) and am more looking for a wife with a great personality at this point in my life. I don't think social media is as important when looking for a wife as it is when you are just trying to fuck young hot chicks, who we all know are pretty much obsessed with social media.

I'm pretty much aged out of the type of woman I would aggressively pursue to just have sex with (18-24 year olds)

Off-topic, but I think you and most guys would be very surprised how much younger girls like fit, "daddy mode" older men. Source: I have mostly female friends lol.

These girls will deny it in public due to social judgement, but as always, what people *say* is irrelevant. The only thing that matters is what they *do* when alone and away from judging eyes. This goes for men too obviously haha.
 
Off-topic, but I think you and most guys would be very surprised how much younger girls like fit, "daddy mode" older men. Source: I have mostly female friends lol.

These girls will deny it in public due to social judgement, but as always, what people *say* is irrelevant. The only thing that matters is what they *do* when alone and away from judging eyes. This goes for men too obviously haha.

Oh yeah, they'll be down to fuck. But they'll also try to hide you away and not want to be in a full on relationship with you cause you're too old and its a little embarrasing for them socially.
 
Oh yeah, they'll be down to fuck. But they'll also try to hide you away and not want to be in a full on relationship with you cause you're too old and its a little embarrasing for them socially.

On the flipside, would you want to be with someone who feels embarrassed being seen with you (for whatever reason)? Just think of this as a way for them to filter themselves out. If they filter themselves out, then it's their loss.
 
Well these made me feel better about myself.
 
On the flipside, would you want to be with someone who feels embarrassed being seen with you (for whatever reason)? Just think of this as a way for them to filter themselves out. If they filter themselves out, then it's their loss.

Pretty much.
 
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