My Girlfriend Has Randomly Become Distant

koolinkunming said:
Sounds like a hormonal thing. My wife has had that same kind of mood where she says she wants a baby, then 20 minutes later gets in some mood (which I did nothing to influence) and says she wants a divorce, then 20 minutes more go by and she's all over me totally in love again.

Meh, it's baffling, but what can you do? Sometimes women just get like that for no apparent reason. Let it slide. Roll with the punches.
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Uhhhhh, that's not normal , dude. Women are for sure on average generally more turbulent emotionally than men, but that's sounds more like unstable than hormonal. How old is your wife ?
 
Just another DaleyChamp troll thread, nothing to see here folks.
 
DaleyChamp said:
She stayed over last Wednesday night and things were going really well. She was coming over most evenings and the days she wasnt over we would talk quite a but during the day and when we did it was always in a positive way. She was supposed 2 come over last Friday and things were going well but this is where it all changed. For the first time we didn't talk all day, she never even bothered messeging me to say she wasn't coming and she didn't snap me till half 1 that night saying just back from babysitting.

She lives 10 minutes from my house and just finished her college year lik 2 weeks ago so should be over now more than ever. However she has not been over since she left Thursday morning, and is starting to ignore my messages more. Also, when I asked her last night how shes finding being off, she said shes loving life. The weird thing is she throws in some messages to make me think things are back to normal but Im starting to think shes playing with me and its really fucking with my head and making me depressed. She has told me a couple times over the last few days shed call over but has always cancelled. She even said we could go for walk 2day, I snapped her this morning but she opened it and didnt respond.

I love this girl and its breaking my heart, making me depressed and I just duno what to do...since this has happened I have lost enjoyment in everything in life. All I want to do is see her.


EDIT: Big plot twist. I was talking to her 2day on snapchat. And she was telling me about some things. And I said it doesnt matter cause were not 2gether anymore. Fast forward 20 minutes. Were going moving in together in a different city.
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She's creating distance and thinking of ways to break it easy to you.

I went through this same exact thing last year. Her and I had a amazing Fourth of July weekend and after that she became harder and harder to have conversation with. She's gonna hit you with the we need to talk txt soon.

I'm sorry man it sucks I went to the same bullshit last year with a girl who I was absolutely smittened with. Left me with so much regrets and I thoughts that I should have done this, this and this. Fortunately we got back together and I took my second chance and ran with it and knocked it out of the ballpark. We broke up again but this time I have no regrets I did everything I possibly could. She was the one who fucked up this time.

All I can say is do what makes you happy and take this to time focus on you.
 
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DaleyChamp said:
She stayed over last Wednesday night and things were going really well. She was coming over most evenings and the days she wasnt over we would talk quite a but during the day and when we did it was always in a positive way. She was supposed 2 come over last Friday and things were going well but this is where it all changed. For the first time we didn't talk all day, she never even bothered messeging me to say she wasn't coming and she didn't snap me till half 1 that night saying just back from babysitting.

She lives 10 minutes from my house and just finished her college year lik 2 weeks ago so should be over now more than ever. However she has not been over since she left Thursday morning, and is starting to ignore my messages more. Also, when I asked her last night how shes finding being off, she said shes loving life. The weird thing is she throws in some messages to make me think things are back to normal but Im starting to think shes playing with me and its really fucking with my head and making me depressed. She has told me a couple times over the last few days shed call over but has always cancelled. She even said we could go for walk 2day, I snapped her this morning but she opened it and didnt respond.

I love this girl and its breaking my heart, making me depressed and I just duno what to do...since this has happened I have lost enjoyment in everything in life. All I want to do is see her.


EDIT: Big plot twist. I was talking to her 2day on snapchat. And she was telling me about some things. And I said it doesnt matter cause were not 2gether anymore. Fast forward 20 minutes. Were going moving in together in a different city.
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Shes fucking with other dudes. Quit being depressed. Billions of women out there
 
Your problem is you use words like "snapped" and catch feels over some random you've been with how long? You sound fragile as fuck. Odds are it won't work out then we will have to endure another breakup thread and more lap/iPad jokes.
 
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