My Girlfriend Has Randomly Become Distant

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She stayed over last Wednesday night and things were going really well. She was coming over most evenings and the days she wasnt over we would talk quite a but during the day and when we did it was always in a positive way. She was supposed 2 come over last Friday and things were going well but this is where it all changed. For the first time we didn't talk all day, she never even bothered messeging me to say she wasn't coming and she didn't snap me till half 1 that night saying just back from babysitting.

She lives 10 minutes from my house and just finished her college year lik 2 weeks ago so should be over now more than ever. However she has not been over since she left Thursday morning, and is starting to ignore my messages more. Also, when I asked her last night how shes finding being off, she said shes loving life. The weird thing is she throws in some messages to make me think things are back to normal but Im starting to think shes playing with me and its really fucking with my head and making me depressed. She has told me a couple times over the last few days shed call over but has always cancelled. She even said we could go for walk 2day, I snapped her this morning but she opened it and didnt respond.

I love this girl and its breaking my heart, making me depressed and I just duno what to do...since this has happened I have lost enjoyment in everything in life. All I want to do is see her.


EDIT: Big plot twist. I was talking to her 2day on snapchat. And she was telling me about some things. And I said it doesnt matter cause were not 2gether anymore. Fast forward 20 minutes. Were going moving in together in a different city.
 
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She's loving life because she's getting TONS of dick.

iPad incoming.
 
Son, this is the third thread in like two weeks where I'm going to tell you she doesn't really wanna be your girlfriend.

Haven't you been "dating" like a month? Don't use the L word with regards to her, playboy.

You don't love her, you're smitten.

Or trolling. I can't even tell anymore.
 
Bobby Digital said:
Son, this is the third thread in like two weeks where I'm going to tell you she doesn't really wanna be your girlfriend.

Haven't you been "dating" like a month? Don't use the L word with regards to her, playboy.

You don't love her, you're smitten.

Or trolling. I can't even tell anymore.
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Im being serious! But its weird I've already met her faimily and she introduced me as her girlfriend. That was two weeks ago tho when it was going better. I thinksome days she wants to be my girlfriend and sometimes she doesnt.
 
DaleyChump thread.

Nothing in the OP is true.
 
Didn't read but just from reading your title can tell you with confidence that it's over......done.
 
DaleyChamp said:
Im being serious! But its weird I've already met her faimily and she introduced me as her girlfriend. That was two weeks ago tho when it was going better. I thinksome days she wants to be my girlfriend and sometimes she doesnt.
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Only your penis can decide whether she identifies as being your girlfriend full time.
 
DaleyChamp said:
Im being serious! But its weird I've already met her faimily and she introduced me as her girlfriend. That was two weeks ago tho when it was going better. I thinksome days she wants to be my girlfriend and sometimes she doesnt.
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Hang on - This thread is about lesbians??! Sweet.
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but srsly, maybe shes just getting too much of you. id say either talk to her directly about this, or simply back off on how often youre in her life
 
She just snapped me asking what my plans are for the night. I'm still not getting my hopes up yet tho...
 
DaleyChamp said:
Im being serious! But its weird I've already met her faimily and she introduced me as her girlfriend. That was two weeks ago tho when it was going better. I thinksome days she wants to be my girlfriend and sometimes she doesnt.
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are you a girl or did she straight up disrespect you to her family or did you mean boyfriend here?

at any rate, she busy...getting filled out. Eyes dotted, Tees crossed!

just convince yourself that you're young and this is but a half hour episode in the failed sitcom that is life.

then move on.
 
scorpipede said:
are you a girl or did she straight up disrespect you to her family or did you mean boyfriend here?

at any rate, she busy...getting filled out. Eyes dotted, Tees crossed!

just convince yourself that you're young and this is but a half hour episode in the failed sitcom that is life.

then move on.
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Sorry I meant boyfriend lol. Honestly if she did cheat on me id be suicidal.
 
DaleyChamp said:
Sorry I meant boyfriend lol. Honestly if she did cheat on me id be suicidal.
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happens to everyone bro. it's rough but a learning experience. It's when you learn to never love, only deposit.
 
just move on. Plenty of fish in the sea. You seem like you like attention (i do to), so go find someone who adores you and WANTS to see/talk to you.

Just broke up with my gf of over 2 years for...lets just say a certain lifestyle disagreement
 
DaleyChamp said:
I love this girl and its breaking my heart, making me depressed and I just duno what to do...since this has happened I have lost enjoyment in everything in life. All I want to do is see her.
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Holy fucking shit bro, talk about putting all your eggs into one basket.

I think you need to break up with her for your own sanity.
 
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