Chandler is doing it all wrong. Kissing Conor's ass isn't gonna make Conor fight. Conor had ZERO intention of fighting when he agreed to TUF. Call Conor what he is, a pussy. He has no confidence in his injury healing plus he knows Chandler would fuck his head up worse than anyone else right now. Playing nice with Conor only works when Conor knows he will win. When the outcome is in doubt, hold a mirror up and expose Conor for the coddled fraud he is. Who has Conor really beaten? A short notice Mendes, a fluke shot on Aldo, an Alvarez who gave in to the hype and wilted, a bullshit decision over Diaz after getting fucked up in the first fight, and win over a way past his prime Cerrone who was there for the paycheck.
Conor is nothing more than a mirage that Dana and the UFC hyped and carefully marketed and matched against opponents. He isn't an elite fighter by any stretch. He is a brash loudmouth that learned to talk his way into preferred easier fights. What happened when he took fights with fighters with equal or better skills? He got starched. He got mauled. He got fucked up. He got injured. Chandler would give him permanent brain damage. But kissing Conor's ass isn't gonna work any better than making fun and pissing him off will. All it does is make Chandler look weak and a beggar. Fuck Conor. Tell Conor after you whup his ass you're gonna celebrate by knocking Dee up and put an apron on Conor's bitch ass and put him in the kitchen where he belongs. Challenge his manhood enough and he will fight. Surely Conor would defend the mother of his kids, right? He did it for Artem and threw dollies. If Conor doesn't defend his old lady's honor, Conor will hear it from her and she will nag and grate on Conor like most women do.
Cut a promo from a bar and remind him that it's easy to punch old guys who don't hit back. Challenge Conor's manhood every chance you get. A real fighter will only let so much go before they are ready to throw. Attack Conor's country and say how outside of Conor, all Irish fighters suck and are pussies. The pressure will come from those around him pushing him shut Chandler's mouth. And if Conor doesn't, the allure that he is a bad ass and "fights anyone anywhere anytime" whithers away.