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Your hitting on why this really bugged me, before I noticed the kick. He pushes her, his friends are trying to hold him back, and she is walking towards him like she wants to fight.
Their is a part of me that thinks drunk chicks like that should be allowed to enter into mutual combat with a dude. Being a female isn't a force field. Allot of dudes will go to jail, or take a ass whooping to stop someone from talking shit. I'm not sure we should be making a victim out of that chick.
I can understand your perspective on this, and agree to an extent. Western culture has a strong taboo against men hitting women. Some women think they have a license to be an aggressive bitch, even to the extent of physical assault. At what point, and to what extent should a man be able to defend himself? At what point does the fact that it's a woman vs a man no longer matter? This is a very difficult dilemma for a man dealing with a crazed and abusive woman.
However, in this case he is not only a man but a bigger and stronger person. He touched her first, and multiple times. He pushed through multiple people who were trying to drag him away to do so. All he had to do was stop resisting the people who were trying to separate them and end the situation.
It's good that he is "surrounding himself with good people", now he needs to start listening to them and learn more self-control in this area. I'm not saying he should be punished harshly, this wasn't the worst thing he could have done and no one was seriously hurt in the end. But if you play a stupid game, you win a stupid prize.
