Okay, so you're not an "ends justify the means" guy. (Which imo is good, I agree).
But the "if we did, it would be Trump's fault" line...you're saying ONLY Trump's fault?
I'd agree agree he has some culpability but if we get language like "He's Hitler, he will end democracy, he must be stopped" leading up to the election...and then he wins...and then we see some on the left lose their shit and have their own version of Jan 6th...that's ALL on Trump because..."he started it"?
That seems absurd.
Let's say you and I live in the same neighborhood and you whip up half the neighborhood into a frenzy against me because I don't keep my yard looking nice. Some of them go way too far and destroy some of my property etc. So in turn, I whip up the other half in a frenzy against you for being evil and bringing that down on me. And they vandalize your car and house--that's just all your fault for starting it? Myself and the idiots that got amped because of what I said have no blame? Only you and those who initially did wrong?
Or you're saying Trump would share the blame?