Here’s the problem, if you guys are going to exaggerate that into some lunge at Joe, then someone could just do that to Joe’s behavior.
a guy is dancing at club between tables and Joe comes up behind him and instead of tapping him on the shoulder and asking to pass by he just puts his hands on him and pushes him! You can’t sneak up on people and put your hands on them and shive shove them out of the way, that’s threatening, you could be attacking them from behind in a split second, and then when the guy calls out “hey” to protest Joe putting his hands in him, Joe spins around in his face again and could be attacking him in a split second after already putting his hands on him!
Joe had about a dozen options to remove himself from that situation without giving him someone some slight brain damage, but he didn’t take him and it’s clearly an ego thing. If you can’t handle being around tipsy folks don’t go to a fucking dive blasting “in da club”