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Is this cheating?

TSO said:
She won't be getting any and with how much more money she makes than me I will probably get alimony.
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The only way you can get out of paying child support is if you get the kids at least 50% of the time, then the parent that earns more pays a net amount of child support to the other parent that earns less. But if she has them full time and you only get them a couple of evenings a week and say every other weekend you are going to pay. There’s no way around that.

As for alimony how long were you married?
 
TSO said:
I've watched one porn in my life and it was two beds thrown in an alley comparing stories about all the crazy fucking that's happened on them. It was called bedlam or something.
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This is probably in my top 100 favorites of Sherdog posts ever
 
djacobox372 said:
Child support has nothing to do with how much she makes, only how much you make.
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TheWorm said:
The only way you can get out of paying child support is if you get the kids at least 50% of the time, then the parent that earns more pays a net amount of child support to the other parent that earns less. But if she has them full time and you only get them a couple of evenings a week and say every other weekend you are going to pay. There’s no way around that.

As for alimony how long were you married?
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As of last night none of that matters.
 
In more practical terms, make sure this thing whatever it may be, doesn't become an ammunition for your wife during the divorce.
 
If you're separated, it's not cheating.

You and your wife are no longer together. The divorce is just paperwork to facilitate the separation of finances and taxes.
 
TSO said:
My wife and I have been separated since the first week of October and have only a few days ago started talking again. Today, I went to go buy a new tree and met a beautiful woman that owned the nursery. We made out and have a date set for tonight.

I want more than anything to get my wife back, but we had a conversation the other day that seemed to be a "you'll always be special but goodbye" sort of thing.

So if I bang this chick before we're divorced, is it cheating?
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Obviously it is. You know this.
 
shunyata said:
Yes it's still cheating, but if your marriage is already dead it won't affect your zero chance of reconciliation but it could affect the divorce.

Honestly I'd ask your lawyer.

You did lawyer up, didn't you?
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Under appreciated post right here
 
You say you so much want to get back with your wife yet you pash another female and now you are considering fucking this other one too?
No, having sex with someone else before a divorce isn't cheating if you've split from your missus. However i think you're kidding if you want us to believe you really want to get back with your wife.
Why do you want to go back to her, do you actually love your wife? If the answer is yes then a good and sincere way of showing that is making out with another woman or having sex with another woman.
If i wanted my gf/wife back because i was so much in love with her and i was trying really hard to convince her to give 'us' another try, the last thing that would enter my mind would be to have sex with someone else. Have you ever cheated on your wife previously?
 
squeezewax said:
You say you so much want to get back with your wife yet you pash another female and now you are considering fucking this other one too?
No, having sex with someone else before a divorce isn't cheating if you've split from your missus. However i think you're kidding if you want us to believe you really want to get back with your wife.
Why do you want to go back to her, do you actually love your wife? If the answer is yes then a good and sincere way of showing that is making out with another woman or having sex with another woman.
If i wanted my gf/wife back because i was so much in love with her and i was trying really hard to convince her to give 'us' another try, the last thing that would enter my mind would be to have sex with someone else. Have you ever cheated on your wife previously?
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"Pash"?

Yes I made out with another woman. I then backed out of going on a date with her so I could attempt to reconnect with the wife.

No, I've never slept with a woman that isn't my wife since I met her.

And on that note,I've gotten the answers I needed and this has helped me get through some stuff so thank you everyone.
 
TSO said:
My wife and I have been separated since the first week of October and have only a few days ago started talking again. Today, I went to go buy a new tree and met a beautiful woman that owned the nursery. We made out and have a date set for tonight.

I want more than anything to get my wife back, but we had a conversation the other day that seemed to be a "you'll always be special but goodbye" sort of thing.

So if I bang this chick before we're divorced, is it cheating?
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If you want any chance of reconciliation with your wife dont do it.

Hypothetically lets say you do have sex with this lady then you get back with your wife you have this secret that would end 99.9999% marriages on top of an already unstable foundaton.
 
So TS wants his wife back while making out and arranging dates with other women?

<mma4>

Imagine the shitstorm in this thread if TS was a woman wanting his husband back while going out with other men. :rolleyes:
 
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TheWorm said:
So the divorce is still on then?

...have you thought about murder?
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Yes, you’re cheating and you’re asking because you know it’s cheating, but you’re looking for validation that it’s ok because maybe that will take the sting out of it for you..

Here is a thought.. be a decent human being and fully leave your marriage before fucking around.
 
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