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is it "wrong" to sleep with a married person?

Is it "wrong" to sleep with a married person?

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Married/taken women are usually the best. NSA if you want to be selfish
 
EL CORINTHIAN said:
You certainly have the logic down pat but apparently not the consequences. I couldn't live with myself.
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i know i talked about it here before but along time ago when i was in middle school me and two friends decided to fb-email the wife of a cheater and let her know her husband was cheating with someone we knew and she messaged back so many swear words and threats that and was completely ungrateful we told her. the proceeding 6 months was spent posting photo after photo of them together and quotes they are so in love. he's still cheating with the same girl so f- its really the blindsided spouses fault for not catching on. its pretty easy to tell if a guy is cheating on you. and if you cant tell then you must be otherwise happy so oh well.
 
Banchan said:
i know i talked about it here before but along time ago when i was in middle school me and two friends decided to fb-email the wife of a cheater and let her know her husband was cheating with someone we knew and she messaged back so many swear words and threats that and was completely ungrateful we told her. the proceeding 6 months was spent posting photo after photo of them together and quotes they are so in love. he's still cheating with the same girl so f- its really the blindsided spouses fault for not catching on. its pretty easy to tell if a guy is cheating on you. and if you cant tell then you must be otherwise happy so oh well.
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cheating isn't just fucking other people and at times fucking other people isn't cheating.
 
Banchan said:
i used to be really stickler about honesty and thought cheaters are scum of earth and needs to be exposed but quite really i see so much of it that i wonder why i should care. if i find them hot and want to have sex with them too then why the hell not?
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Crazy....you are out in Korea?
I'm planning on heading out there and need a couch to crash on.
Just think. We could Sherdog together.
 
Banchan said:
im getting older and i just realized why am i being such a prude not banging more while im not married only to get locked down to one guy and end up like @EndlessCritic getting it once a month? that kind of scares me.
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I hear you.

bang away, banchan, you'll get no anger from me.
 
Banchan said:
let me redefine the question.

if the guy is a cheater and going to cheat on his wife whether with you or not is it wrong to let them cheat with you?
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banchan i dont think its technically wrong but just remember you would be sleeping with a confirmed scumbag
 
greygoose said:
Married/taken women are usually the best. NSA if you want to be selfish
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That's true they are all pent up from neglect and they may not be into a return visit, so they put on their best performances and do their all time best work. They will even do things that they won't do with hubby, or have never done before because hubby is a fucking bore.
 
when you are a guy sleeping with a married women you have multiple concerns.

First of all there is the possibility that the husband will go crazy and chase you down the street with a machete screaming "I'm gonna chop your balls off"

And it's not done there. There is a possibility at any time that wife will feel guilty, tell her husband, and then 20 years down the line he's cutting your dick off with a hacksaw.

I imagine it's the same for women, except the having dicks and balls part.
 
MarcoW said:
when you are a guy sleeping with a married women you have multiple concerns.

First of all there is the possibility that the husband will go crazy and chase you down the street with a machete screaming "I'm gonna chop your balls off"

And it's not done there. There is a possibility at any time that wife will feel guilty, tell her husband, and then 20 years down the line he's cutting your dick off with a hacksaw.

I imagine it's the same for women, except the having dicks and balls part.
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i object to the "go crazy" part, please change to "act like a fucking man"

DataBreach said:
Married man. Pfffff... probably 42 years old.
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Muhammed married an 8 year old...
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It's your conscience. You get to decide what feels right or wrong. Don't let others decide for you... rhetorical or not.
 
EL CORINTHIAN said:
what do you mean?
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Precisely what I said...an opposite argument can be made to your statement that I had quoted.

I touched down on it in this post, but if you want to argue the issue, I would be happy to engage in that discussion.


Relationships are about trust, agreement, promise, intimacy, security, connectivity and liberating growth together. We as individuals have needs and dreams of our lives, and when you are unfulfilled in yourself, or your partner, finding physical/emotional/intellectual intimacy is one way in which we seek out what is missing, that, and orgasms are terribly addictive. In many instances, infidelity brings relationships closer together, whether the infidelity is discovered or not, as it often concentrates the individual, or couples thoughts and actions towards "making it work" . People don't have these sexual excursions because they are bad people, but because they are trying to move towards a fulfilled life.

I think viewing "cheaters" in such emotionally charged, reactive, stereotyped and generalized terms is very short sighted, and not allowing for a deeper understanding of the complexity's of the human mind, experience and relation to others. Labeling people homewreckers and cheaters is just the scared lizard brain reaching in fear to find its club in the dark, so as to smash the threat, all without thought, but satisfied in itself with simplistic, reactive non-solutions.

At the core of us all, there are needs to be fulfilled, however one cares to define, or place value on them, or themselves.
 
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