Allow me to introduce this thread by saying that I am a wrestler... not a spaz. I am sick of Jius telling me to "relax" or "flow with the go." This is not to say that I train with any form of ego or implement any kind of mallicious intent, but I do go hard. I shoot for doubles, I elevate people (laying them down gently of course), and I like to initiate scrambles. Positioning is my forte. Now when I'm sparring, I do like to push the action. You know, actually turn the situation into an athletic endevour. When I'm on bottom, I prefer to create frames, disengage from my opponent, and then implement my wrestling. And I go easier on newer people, just like anyone would in any sport. I feel that in Wrestling, people train how they need to, and in Jiu-Jitsu, people train how they like. Question of Thread: Is it wrong to be physically forceful in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu?