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in today's world you can do all the research you need from your phone. you'll be fine. you may have to drive an extra five minutes though. a house is just a house and i'd be shocked if 99% of people actually knew even half their neighbors
A house is not just a house. A house is a home, it's a huge part of people's personal lives. Houses have been in people's families for decades, for generations. People have gotten married in those houses, they raised their kids in those houses, their spouses died in those houses. They knew the kids who grew up down the street, those who did good things and those who didn't. Their kids walked those streets to and from school. They know the local shop owner (although that's not so common these days).
They are memories, not just physical residences. That might be a reflection of your military background where you know that you're not setting down roots anywhere for an extended period of time. But that's not a universal position.
I have dozens of people who come through either of my offices with properties that have had the same owner for 30+ years. Leaving those houses is like leaving behind a part of their family. And you don't have to know half of your neighbors on a 1st name to be a part of that community. You know people by sight, by acquaintance, etc.
It's interesting that you place such little value on these personal components attached to a home.