Is Borderline Personality Disorder obvious in a person?

Renard said:
Yeah, but it can present in very different ways in different people. Some are depressive and brooding.
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In this case depressive and moody. Claims that its medication against strong menstrual cycles.

She feels lost in this world. Goes along with things I say about relationships and life but I don't feel like she actually understands it

She met a new girl at work since 4 months back and claims they are soulmates. And I could see her do similiar things to me...

"We are so similiar". Blablabla... Complete horseshit
 
She threatened me when we got into a fight, that I should watch my words.

But I have a nice side kick so not too worried.
 
She's probably crazy. There's a whole lot of crazy out there TS. Oh and crazy > stupid, do with that what you will.
 
Not at all obvious until you know someone pretty well no.
 
Some of these things can be hereditary. I think classification can help people identify what is wrong with them, which is a victory in itself
 
Intermission said:
Its a supposed diagnosis for people who love you one day and hate you the other. And this goes on forever. It doesnt have any logic to it.

Kinda lika bipolar disorder but directed towards humans, not life itself. Bipolar people go up and down about living... Mike Tyson is bipolar. Lovely guy.
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To answer your question I have been in a very similar situation where a flip happened and it was so abrupt it seemed unbelievable.

It's not easy to notice. You might see a hint of something different here and there but once the split happens it will still catch you off guard.

Good luck sherbro
 
mixmastermo said:
To answer your question I have been in a very similar situation where a flip happened and it was so abrupt it seemed unbelievable.

It's not easy to notice. You might see a hint of something different here and there but once the split happens it will still catch you off guard.

Good luck sherbro
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Its like she woke up one day and took out the garbage. Recognize that?
 
She said no diagnosis. Maybe they didnt investigate her? Would she lie about something like that?

It does matter to me if I get in touch with her again.

Crazy I can take. Borderline is too draining.
 
I wouldn't say easy and not everything 'off' about someone has to be an actual mental problem but you can slightly tell the difference between a cunt and someone who is just 'off' in some way.
 
Intermission said:
In this case depressive and moody. Claims that its medication against strong menstrual cycles.

She feels lost in this world. Goes along with things I say about relationships and life but I don't feel like she actually understands it

She met a new girl at work since 4 months back and claims they are soulmates. And I could see her do similiar things to me...

"We are so similiar". Blablabla... Complete horseshit
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Sounds like lovebombing. Just from your description it's hard to say if it is BPD though. The cluster B personality disorders can look very similar to one another. It can be something like CPTSD, that doesn't really fit the criteria for anything specific. Alcoholic parents leaves a mark regardless.
 
Renard said:
Sounds like lovebombing. Just from your description it's hard to say if it is BPD though. The cluster B personality disorders can look very similar to one another. It can be something like CPTSD, that doesn't really fit the criteria for anything specific. Alcoholic parents leaves a mark regardless.
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She started like this in the getting to know each other phase.. "you look like a genius". "But you are obviously not"

Okey? Thanks?

Really odd way to flatter someone.
 
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She started like this in the getting to know each other phase.. "you look like a genius". "But you are obviously not"

Okey? Thanks?

Really odd way to flatter someone.
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First clue she’s retarded herself. Imagine being able to identify genius intelligence through clothing or appearance. You should have given her a clean axe kick to the beak and told her to be on her way.
 
BPH is very real, it might appear like narcissism but they've got this weird constant cycle
 
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