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Interview experiences/ advice

Hahaha. You're not interviewing the panel. I've sat on a lot of panels. These unique, clever, or testing questions are just so fucking annoying.

An interview is a process for testing potential employees and how they react under pressure. Not the reverse. Sure, do your research of the company/organisation but do that in your own time, not mine. Our interview times range from 20 to 30 minutes and then a 10 minute break in between to share an initial assessment of the candidate. If the candidate is eating into the 10 minutes it just pisses off the panel.

When I'm being interviewed and I'm asked if I have any questions, I reply 'no questions as I am familiar with the role and company. I've sat on quite a few recruitment panels so I know how busy you all are, but I'd just like to thank you for the opportunity you have given me today. Thank you'. Smile at each panel member and leave.

The rest of your advice is good.

We will agree to disagree. I'm not saying I'm testing them or being cutesy. I have pertinent questions but not the same ones that everyone gets from every interview website. I ask in a more creative way. I don't waste time at all. I work to make a connection with them as they probably get bored to tears asking the same people the same questions and getting the same answers over and over. Plus, yes, when I'm interviewing it is my goal to also find out if I want to work for them. Why put myself into a bad company or bad situation?

Also...I completely disagree with your whole "no questions" thing. It sounds lazy, arrogant, and patronizing to me. Basically you are saying I know this process, kissing butt saying how busy they all must be, and that you know everything about their company and role, I mean out of the entire 30 minute conversation you just had, not 1 question or clarification thought came up?? I'd never hire anyone who didn't have any questions prepared. I'd assume they just typed out their interview responses and practiced in front of a mirror with no ability to think on the fly, adapt to a sitatuion or have a back and forth discussion.
 
We will agree to disagree. I'm not saying I'm testing them or being cutesy. I have pertinent questions but not the same ones that everyone gets from every interview website. I ask in a more creative way. I don't waste time at all. I work to make a connection with them as they probably get bored to tears asking the same people the same questions and getting the same answers over and over. Plus, yes, when I'm interviewing it is my goal to also find out if I want to work for them. Why put myself into a bad company or bad situation?

Also...I completely disagree with your whole "no questions" thing. It sounds lazy, arrogant, and patronizing to me. Basically you are saying I know this process, kissing butt saying how busy they all must be, and that you know everything about their company and role, I mean out of the entire 30 minute conversation you just had, not 1 question or clarification thought came up?? I'd never hire anyone who didn't have any questions prepared. I'd assume they just typed out their interview responses and practiced in front of a mirror with no ability to think on the fly, adapt to a sitatuion or have a back and forth discussion.

How many panels have you sat on?
 
How many panels have you sat on?
Enough to know better and enough to judge a person's personality and work ethic fairly quickly. I look for humble, hungry people compatible with the company culture and team instead of robots or know it alls. I said earlier, I can teach skill to those striving to learn and improve and dig in. I can't teach personality and curiosity to someone who might have all the skills in the world (in their own mind at least).

How many panels have you sat on?
 
I could of phrased that better. Some want to mentor but others want to take credit as a mentor, if you succeed.
Universally though I think you can't threaten their position, I've been sabotaged by bosses who thought I wanted their jobs (I didn't)
The ones that actually mentor have generally been the better bosses
It's extremely rare to find someone willing to teach/mentor because it is dog eat dog every man for himself and more common to find people sabotaging you to keep you down and low paid so more money to them instead.
 
It's extremely rare to find someone willing to teach/mentor because it is dog eat dog every man for himself and more common to find people sabotaging you to keep you down and low paid so more money to them instead.
I was slated for advancement and went through a lot of training. I worked with some really good bosses and really bad ones. I retired early. But a bunch of other potential leaders careers faltered, and I saw that as the result of sabotage.
I worked for a great boss who was stuck down by cancer. I stepped into his role and trained my new boss once he was hired. The new boss was always pushing for me to take his job, but I didn't want that one I had my sights set on another.
There were good bosses in my experience, but I've been retired for more then 10 years and the job experiences might of changed a bunch since. Also if taken properly losses can teach you as much as successes, ones of the guys I thought was undermining me was also almost 100% responsible for getting me to start my retirement savings at 18. I think like bears they become more dangerous as they get older and desperate
 
I’ll give you my advice. I’m 100% percent on interviews. My family knows if I make it to the interview stage I’m getting an offer. I’ve also been on the other side several times (I’m a professor - I’ve been on several search committees for various faculty positions).

When applicable, for every question:

1. Give background and significance on the topic being asked and your overall philosophy / thoughts. Basically validate the question to demonstrate you understand the importance of what is asked.

2. Explain your experience both broadly and with specific examples. Explain rationale behind any specific example. Try to tie 1 and 2 together.

3. Propose how you would use your experience in your new role and how it might apply to other topics.


From my experience as the person conducting interviews, a lot of people jump into 2 and stay there.

Smile and show some charisma while staying professional.

Do not overstate your answer or experiences. If you mention anything, be prepared to elaborate on it in a meaningful manner. You control the narrative, focus on discussing things you are great at that you can explain well rather than listing a ton of things you can do but not elaborate on with specific examples and philosophies/ strategies on the subject.

Ask them questions if it’s allowed but make sure they are really good and thoughtful questions.

Good luck.
 
The only interview I bombed was with the SPCA. I can pinpoint where I went wrong.

They asked, “what would you do if our manager decided to euthanize an animal and you disagreed with the decision?”

My big brain response: “we’d have to have a conversation and come to some kind of compromise”.

Hahahahahaaaa fuck. It was over. I couldn’t lie though. If I genuinely felt an animal had potential for a good life, yeah, we need to talk. They don’t like that.
 
The older I get, the less responsibility I want.
Being a manger sucks donkey balls, and people suck too.
I don’t want to work with anyone who needs “supervision”.
 
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thanks. Ive actually done a good bit of studying for interviews recently. I am actively thinking about the STAR technique and how to incorporate what I want to say into the potential questions. I think my biggest concern is showing lack of confidence due to lack of experience.
It doesn’t work to show confidence in things you don’t have experience in. BUT you can point to things you’ve done that can translate into the new role. For example, you may not have managed people, but you may have managed customers. Or you may have led a team in sports. Or maybe you led research or study groups in college/grad school. Etc. Show how that has prepared you for this role.

A typical example I used to come across a lot were engineers trying to move into management consulting. The ideal line was “Engineering is about solving physical problems, while management consulting is about solving business problems. I can apply my problem-solving skills once equipped with the necessary business knowledge”.
 
The only interview I bombed was with the SPCA. I can pinpoint where I went wrong.

They asked, “what would you do if our manager decided to euthanize an animal and you disagreed with the decision?”

My big brain response: “we’d have to have a conversation and come to some kind of compromise”.

Hahahahahaaaa fuck. It was over. I couldn’t lie though. If I genuinely felt an animal had potential for a good life, yeah, we need to talk. They don’t like that.
Kinda reminds me of a finance interview where I didn’t read the room. The question was “if you had to go back in time to kill someone, who would it be?”. My answer was Hitler, partly because I felt it would have avoided WWII, but honestly it was also just a BS answer I thought would please anyone.

Problem was that the interviewer was a huge guy with a fully shaved head who most likely held a very, very different view. Needless to say, I didn’t get the internship, despite being recommended by one of the firm’s partners.
 
Kinda reminds me of a finance interview where I didn’t read the room. The question was “if you had to go back in time to kill someone, who would it be?”. My answer was Hitler, partly because I felt it would have avoided WWII, but honestly it was also just a BS answer I thought would please anyone.

Problem was that the interviewer was a huge guy with a fully shaved head who most likely held a very, very different view. Needless to say, I didn’t get the internship, despite being recommended by one of the firm’s partners.

A question like that is from a company that I'd never want to work for. Shit like that is completely lame in interviews, and honestly a power trip thing.
 
Your degree and certs don’t hold any weight against actual job experience

If you can bullshit about supervising from a previous job, that’s your only shot

Otherwise those other 3 guys who applied will out-politic you
 
It's extremely rare to find someone willing to teach/mentor because it is dog eat dog every man for himself and more common to find people sabotaging you to keep you down and low paid so more money to them instead.
Worse is training your replacement
 
A question like that is from a company that I'd never want to work for. Shit like that is completely lame in interviews, and honestly a power trip thing.
Absolutely. I didn’t miss much and actually ended up at a better internship 🤷‍♂️
 
ah the star technique, I was trained in it when it was brandy new, then left that job because my dad was dying and needed an easy part time job to just pay the bills while I spent time with him. The first question they asked was prime STAR material 101.

I looked at the lady and said Situation, Task, Action, Response, I've done the same course you have, this job is something I'm way over qualified for but need because my father is terminally ill and I will do everything possible to make your numbers look good while I'm here.

She laughed, gave me the job, and we chatted for about another 20 minutes about what it was like to really work there. Best interview I ever had.

Be there 10 to 15 minutes early, be very nice to the receptionist or anyone you interact with before you meet the actual interviewers, dressed well, focus on relaxing while you wait, if you meditate or do breathing exercises to help relax, do then discreetly now.

Since you already work for the company, you'll need to demonstrate you understand some of their higher level goals if appropriate. Also, don't acknowledge there are other internal or external candidates at all, especially don't mention any advantages in experience they have over you.

Some of the stuff you've already said in this thread would impress me in an interview...

Early in the interview, when highlighting your education I would follow it up with BUT "Education doesn't earn you respect from the guys on the ground doing the work. Being in the trenches and leading people trumps an education." and throw on something like "and I plan to earn that respect each day by the example I set of being prepared, professional and open to guidance from my own managers."

Middle of the interview I would try to paraphrase this line of yours "New management almost seems relieved that I don’t have more stuff to dump on them" into something like "i hope I've already shown how I have a positive attitude, the ability to solve problems, and have increased morale at my current level. I always try preventing minor problems for going past me and distracting upper management unnecessarily.

Toward the end of the interview I would roll out "My hope is that You see how driven I am and that I have the aptitude to learn"

If they ask you what questions you have I have this little gem I have used "If you could fix one ongoing problem under the duties of this position instantly, what would that problem be?"

It show you are looking for their priorities and thus are likely to make their lives easier going forward.

I always ask if they have a timeline for their decision. I always send a thank you letter to the interviewers the next day,

Now having said all that I suck at interviews, though I feel I am a very strong interviewer.

I evidently talk in a monotone, don't show a ton of enthusiasm, don't like to take credit for things I've done (I'm a we not a me guy when talking about success and me not a we guy when talking about mistakes), and tend to judge the company pretty harshly if I don't like the interviewer.

I've turned down lucrative jobs on at least two occasions because the interviewers appeared to be ass hats I wouldn't want to work for and have taken jobs with less pay because the company's culture and mission were things I liked.

You can only do this sort of shit if you come from a rich family, I don't, have rare sought after skills, I don't, or have your personal and financial life in such good shape that you have the confidence you will be fine and don't have to work for ass hats, I do. Keep that in mind as you progress in life and make financial decisions and choose your relationships and habits.

And as many people here have already said, you have to know yourself or at least learn from experience if you like managing people. I have 0 desire to ever manage a large group of people at a shitty corporate job they hate. I did it, hated it, learned to never do it again, have been much happier ever since.

I'm a small company, multiple hat wearing, my success or failure depends solely on me kinda bunny.

Other people like the challenge and financial rewards of working for big companies and leading large teams. You'll figure out what fits you pretty quick when you do manage multiple employees.

Good luck and please give us a report on how it went once it is done.
 
I've been more on the employer side than the interviewee side. If I have to distill the quality I wish the person I am interviewing would demonstrate is the ability to solve problems others can't. I don't mean just saying you're puntual, goal oriented and a problem solver. I want to hear what kind of problem that others can't solve, but you manage to.
 
The only interview I bombed was with the SPCA. I can pinpoint where I went wrong.

They asked, “what would you do if our manager decided to euthanize an animal and you disagreed with the decision?”

My big brain response: “we’d have to have a conversation and come to some kind of compromise”.

Hahahahahaaaa fuck. It was over. I couldn’t lie though. If I genuinely felt an animal had potential for a good life, yeah, we need to talk. They don’t like that.
I applied for a similar job with an animal rights organization. Never heard back though I was highly qualified. Went back and saw that my cover letter said I wanted to work for their “Ant Cruelty” department

Don’t trust spellcheck y’all
 
^ and don't button up too high so the boobage curvature can be seen and seal the deal.
 
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