I'm just saying nothing I'm saying suggests "lack of male role model" or whatever such horsesh*t. Bringing up my Mom is some b*tch-made beta boy sh*t. I'm more frugal than my wife is by a Country mile, I just told her this morning we're not running out and buying shelves at IKEA to accommodate sh*t in the garage I'm gonna throw out. That's because my Mother (one of the people who raised me) is the most frugal person I know. She taught me how to do my taxes. She helped me open my first bank account. She taught me how the accounts worked and which ones were best. The most direct male role model I had had a drinking habit, though he did take care of me. He pissed away plenty of money and in his elderly years bought a f*ckin timeshare thinking it was gonna make him rich.
Political differences aside you'll never see me slight a person who makes their life better without resorting to crime, especially if they dont already possess an advantage. I'm just noting that the majority of elevating of social class I've ever seen is a product of good fortune, and favoritism (a hook-up or tip). And that's not necessarily a bad thing, just that guys like you and me its hammered into our heads when we're little that crime doesnt pay, when the reality is we are raised in a system where the punishment for crimes is often TO pay, which means the wealthy can absolutely get away with it at a favorable ratio. So it definitely pays, for them.