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Ideas on how to curb mass shootings.

It was far more rare for people in previous generations because they were largely monogamous.

Why would that make it more rare? If anything, that should make it more common.

We have abandoned monogamy in modern society, and now a small percentage of men mate with a large percentage of women.

http://uber-facts.com/2012/11/27/14-of-japanese-men-ages-30-to-34-are-still-virgins/

This isn't Japan. The number of male and female virgins at age 25 in the US is nearly the same (3% vs 2%).
http://www.nbcnews.com/id/41879879/ns/health-sexual_health/#.U4YCuSgmx8E
 
But the main problem would be the lack of real life sex. The frustration of not getting layed was what made him act like that, not being exposed to porn or the "moral decay" of society.

I disagree, his sexual frustration was likely fueled by porn. And that reinforces the idea in your mind that women are created for your pleasure only. But not every porn addict will shoot up the city.
 
Learn how to fail as a child. Learn to deal with that failure and move forward. Understand that not everyone is special. Recognize and reward hard work leading to success. We are so worried about self esteem as a child that we lose sight of the end state - a functional human being.

The time to experience failure or rejection for the first time is not when you are 16-20 years old.



Fuck your liberal educational agenda. It failed.

Always confusing when conservatards blame everything on a liberal agenda.
Where exactly does it say liberals promote not knowing about failure, whereas conservatards promote it?

Oh wait, nowhere. You're just looking for an excuse to complain.
 
This guy was bat shit crazy and if he a supper model hot girlfriend and getting it every night he still would have gone off on something` because he was bat shit crazy.
 
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Wrong. We are human beings. We are a part of the animal kingdom. We - as are all living creatures - flawed. Sin carries religious implication and has no basis in reality.

You are literally arguing semantics. Just replace the word "sin" with "immoral action", since in the limit that morality is derived from divine law, they are identical.


Saying everyone will make mistakes is like saying everyone will fall when learning to walk. It is a part of nature and there is nothing inherantly wrong with it.

If your goal is to walk, falling is wrong. Of course you will fall when learning, but your goal should be to reduce the occurrences of falling as much as you can.

Telling a child they are sinful, but can be saved, is no different than saying "You are probably going to fall a few times when learning to walk, but if you try hard, you will overcome these obstacles."



There is a major difference. Raising your child to make good and reasonable choices is not indoctrinating them into a mythical guilt trip. It is not making them feel guilty for something they did not do nor hold responsibility for.

You are baptizing them so they don't have to feel guilty. That's the whole point. Your knowledge of scripture is abysmal.

Telling my child not to steal isn't holding them accountable for the theft others have committed.

Why do you tell your child not to steal?

Its because other children steal, and fear that without reinforcement, yours my do the same. If were 100% confident your child did not have thievery in his nature, you would not need to tell him not to steal.


That's what you and your religion does. You're teaching them that they are inherantly guilty and there is only one way to find redemption. That is disgusting and wrong.

They are inherently guilty. Everyone has done something wrong at some point. You are guilty of something immoral. I am guilty of something immoral. Everyone on this board is. Our children will also do immoral things. It is part of human nature to do immoral things.

All the baptism does is recognize that, and say unless you want to be consumed by this immoral nature, you need to find the right path, and stay true to it.


We have very good methods of deducing what is credible and what is not.

No we don't. We have a couple methods that work sort-of well in certain situations.

These methods are what took us from horsedrawn carts to the moon in 75 years. These methods are what allowed us to learn what stars a billion light years away from us are/were made of. It allowed us to learn the age of the Universe, the Earth, and our Sun. It allowed us mastery over natural forces that enabled us to create computers, spacecraft, airplanes, cars, driers, and so on.
These methods are proven to work. These methods applied to any of the creation myth stories of the thousands of religions yield absolutely zero validating evidence.

1. Scientific method explicitely is only useful for investigating natural occurrences.
2. Science is limited by technology. This is not trivial. We understand not even the smallest fraction of what there is to understand in the universe, because you have not developed the right tools to probe things.

We just recently discovered the Higg's boson. We don't even know folding mechanism for 99% of the proteins in our own bodies. We discover new species every day. We still don't have cures for several of the most common human ailments.

See, we are still struggling with mundane, entry level (in the grand scheme of things) problems, and you are surprised science and technology is poorly equipped to try to probe God (if such a thing is even possible)


So no, I am not indebted to some random myth you accept because it happened to be a part of the culture you were brought up in.

You are indebted, you are just too stupid to realize it.
 
It is the teaching that we are created sick and commanded - upon pain of eternal torment - to be well. If that is one of the least objectionable aspects of Christianity then I cannot imagine what else they do. I do not know how much worse you can get than that.

That position (minus the hellfire) hardly differs from your own position that "people are animals." The position it actually differs from is the Rousseauian "every child born a saint, then society depraves them."

It's absolutely true that, by nature of being a human being, people have a ton of shitty characteristics and aspects that require a ton of work, social control, etc. to get in hand. In other words, people aren't born intrinsically wonderful precious creatures. It takes an assload of work by everybody to improve them.

After all, that's what we are confronted with here: Somebody who thinks they were born wondrous and divine, rather than realizing he was a worthless piece of shit who wasn't special in the least just by accident of birth.
 
I could be wrong, but it didn't sound like he was just having trouble getting laid; he had never had ANY success with women.

I think that generally would be viewed as highly embarrassing for men in their 20s in almost any era.

Define "success". He couldn't have any conversations with them? No friends? Or no gf's?

And if it's no gf's, was there no woman who was interested in him or was it that he couldn't get the type girls he thought he deserved?
 
No, your morals are bigoted.
We're talking about teaching common sense, not hating people because of book written by droolers.

? lol, what is this? :icon_neut

The only people I hate are people who harm others...so I don't know what the fuck you are babbling about
 

Observe how retarded that headline is. It even contradicts it's message in that headline. "The only nation where this REGULARLY happens". So they admit it happens elsewhere... and thus CANNOT PREVENT IT. Laughable.

It cannot be prevented. There will ALWAYS be killers intent to kill and some will manage it. The mission should not be "How do we stop this from ever happening" it should be asked, "What can we do to minimize these atrocities and prepare for them as best as possible without violating the rights of innocent people"
 
Define "success". He couldn't have any conversations with them? No friends? Or no gf's?

From what I've read, he had never been kissed and probably never even been on a date since girls "never give him a chance". He hated that other young people were happy and having fun while he had to "rot in loneliness".

Sounds like he had no success whatsoever. Not surprising given that he likely radiated intense resentment.
 
Observe how retarded that headline is. It even contradicts it's message in that headline. "The only nation where this REGULARLY happens". So they admit it happens elsewhere... and thus CANNOT PREVENT IT. Laughable.

It cannot be prevented. There will ALWAYS be killers intent to kill and some will manage it. The mission should not be "How do we stop this from ever happening" it should be asked, "What can we do to minimize these atrocities and prepare for them as best as possible without violating the rights of innocent people"

I think by "this happens", the specifically mean shootings. The fact that mass killings happen by other means (52 killed, 700 in the 2005 London bombings. 8 kids dead in the Osaka school massacre in Japan. 15 dead in the Austallian Childers Palace arson.) is always ignored by these people.
 
From what I've read, he had never been kissed and probably never even been on a date since girls "never give him a chance". He hated that other young people were happy and having fun while he had to "rot in loneliness".

Sounds like he had no success whatsoever. Not surprising given that he likely radiated intense resentment.

Which was why I asked the follow up question. Is it that he couldn't get success or he couldn't get success with the specific type of woman he thought he deserved?

He was obviously full of himself. Isn't it more likely that he felt he deserved 9's and 10's and didn't even notice that there were 5's and 6's who might have been interested in him?

We've all been out there in college or the dating game. Fat girls have sex too. I find it hard to believe that any decent looking and half-way decent acting guy can't get laid, if he's willing to take what's available. :icon_neut

Where guys run into problems is that they think every woman they're into should be into them. And when that doesn't happen, they blame the women instead of learning something about themselves.
 
Of course there are a lot of issues to take up with when it comes to religion, but why do you suggest I should leave some of them out? A ritual in which they preach about this sinful six month old baby is disgusting and ridiculous. It also enforces this notion that we are created sick and then commanded to be well. It guilt trips people into following this system. It enforces the notion that we are in debt to a divine creator - none of which shows any shred of truth.

In fact, this original sin story is PROVEN to be myth. There was no Adam and Eve. Biology and Evolution have proven this. If there is no Adam and Eve - as we know there wasn't, as much as we know the Universe doesn't revolve around the Earth - then the whole notion of Original Sin becomes absurd.

This is how they continue to perpetuate this myth. They take in babies and induct them with rituals and lay claim to the baby as being a Catholic Child or a Christian Child. The same goes with Islam and others. They take in children before they can even think for themselves and brainwash them into their cult.

don't want to derail my own thread so I hope Zankou lets us keep going. But I truly believe that a debate about Christian values specifically what Jesus Christ taught (love one another, turn the other cheek, treat others how you want to be treated, feed the hungry ,pray for the sick,) is applicable when debating ideas to stop this madness. if these virtues could somehow be ingrained in children imho it could possibly mitigate the number of mass shootings in the future .

And Zeke, who lied to you and told you that the belief of original sin was PROVEN to be false? also since when has evolution been proven as a non-debatable scientific fact? (mods, I'm not going "there" with the whole evo debate, it's just a counterpoint)

Zeke. I can actually since the anger in your responses. The only thing I can say is that your niece according to the bible, has the capacity for sin, not that she has sinned, and the act of baptism, and grace will cover her, when she eventually arrives to an age where she is aware of the choices she is making, and inevitably commits a "sin".

According to what Christians believe, God, made Adam without the knowledge of not only evil, but good as well.

So without starting a sermon, I'm basically espousing as stated in the op, that kids need to be taught right and wrong. And in our culture historically speaking, the basis for these teachings, and even the laws that our founding fathers gained inspiration from was how Jesus/god instructed us to behave through the mosaic law and what Jesus told his disciples.
 
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So mass killings don't happen in any other countries? Why would you even post bullshit like this when there's been incidents in China recently that have been all over the news? Hell less than 2 months ago a guy killed 5 people in Calgary with a knife. This kind of shit you posted seems like the crap people post on facebook in an attempt to appear smart.
 
Which was why I asked the follow up question. Is it that he couldn't get success or he couldn't get success with the specific type of woman he thought he deserved?

No way of knowing, really. His complaints seem pretty broad.

He was obviously full of himself. Isn't it more likely that he felt he deserved 9's and 10's and didn't even notice that there were 5's and 6's who might have been interested in him?

Again, hard to tell. When he talks, he has a certain smug/arrogant look to him, but I haven't read anything where he really says anything positive about himself to indicate he thought of himself highly. It's hard to believe he had much in the way of real self-confidence.

And, given this guy's attitude, even 5s and 6s may have been repulsed.

We've all been out there in college or the dating game. Fat girls have sex too. I find it hard to believe that any decent looking and half-way decent acting guy can't get laid, if he's willing to take what's available.

Dude had some major mental problems. Honestly, I was in a somewhat similar situation of not experiencing success with women until later in life and I experienced some delusional thinking at times. If a girl had flirted with me, I would never have recognized it as actual flirting - in my mind, the girl was playing a prank on me or just faking to be nice.

Where guys run into problems is that they think every woman they're into should be into them. And when that doesn't happen, they blame the women instead of learning something about themselves.

Some, certainly.
 
But I truly believe that a debate about Christian values specifically what Jesus Christ taught (love one another, turn the other cheek, treat others how you want to be treated, feed the hungry ,pray for the sick,) is applicable when debating ideas to stop this madness.

None of these values are unique or original to Christianity, so why would they need to be taught through the lens of Christianity unless you're trying to make them Christian?
 
You are literally arguing semantics. Just replace the word "sin" with "immoral action", since in the limit that morality is derived from divine law, they are identical.

I am not arguming semantics, you're attempting to hide behind them. There is a very big difference. People are flawed and make mistakes. We should be held accountable for the mistakes we make, not merely for being flawed. Again, we do not blame our children for the theft of others when we teach them not to steal. Your religion does that. We are all already guilty and at fault. You are being dishonest sir to suggest otherwise.

If your goal is to walk, falling is wrong. Of course you will fall when learning, but your goal should be to reduce the occurrences of falling as much as you can.

Falling is not wrong, it is a natural process of learning. Failure is the key to success. The people who succeed the most typically fail the most before success. If they did not fail they likely would not accomplish much.

Telling a child they are sinful, but can be saved, is no different than saying "You are probably going to fall a few times when learning to walk, but if you try hard, you will overcome these obstacles."

There is a HUGE difference that you're being dishonest in attempting to obscure. On one hand you're telling children that they are INHERANTLY BAD and are COMMANDED to get better upon pain of eternal damnation. On the other hand you accept that people are just a higher mammal, an animal, and that mistakes are not inherantly bad, just a part of who we are and that the best we can do it attempt to overcome them. In this sense, a child is not inherantly bad or guilty, they are just normal.

You are baptizing them so they don't have to feel guilty. That's the whole point. Your knowledge of scripture is abysmal.

They are still guilty, just "forgiven" for prior mistakes - mistakes that were never theirs to begin with. Those future mistakes will henceforth be made by them because they are still guilty beings and it is in their flawed nature ever since Original Sin (because those flaws did not exist as part of their nature until then) and they must constantly apologize/repent for being human. It is this idea of constant guilt. It's disgusting.

Why do you tell your child not to steal?

Because doing so adversely affects society and we are a social animal. If you upset the natural social order you partake in undermining our society which adversely affects the lives of everyone including yourself.

Its because other children steal, and fear that without reinforcement, yours my do the same. If were 100% confident your child did not have thievery in his nature, you would not need to tell him not to steal.

It is natural for all animals to acquire material goods for themselves. This often means that they will acquire them from others. It is also in our nature to be social animals, which means that our evolution has put us on a path of cooperation. This is a struggle that we as a species partake in. This desire is not wrong, it is natural. We teach our children not to steal because higher cognition allows us to understand that certain actions are better for our species than other actions. Cooperation is better for our species than constantly undermining our neighbors.

The difference is that you're trying to ascribe Universal Moral Law to this where none exists. Under your UML the desire to steal means we are sinful or wrong, and that' not the case at all. I am married, yet when I see a sexy woman I instinctively want to mate with her. I am not being immoral or wrong for having this desire. It is natural. However for society it is wrong to act on it because it undermines our advanced culture.

They are inherently guilty. Everyone has done something wrong at some point.

You are confusing two different things. They are NOT inherently guilty, they are only guilty of something they chose to do. You are presenting something without choice on the same level as something with choice. This is either deliberately dishonest of you or seriously misguided.

You are guilty of something immoral. I am guilty of something immoral. Everyone on this board is. Our children will also do immoral things. It is part of human nature to do immoral things.

Chosing to do something immoral is immoral. We are not inherently immoral. I am not immoral for things I have not done, only for the things I have done. Certainly most people are going to do something immoral at some point because we are animals who are attempting to live by a complex structure of society we have created for ourselves. In addition the world is not black and white and interpretations of immoral will vary.

A newborn who dies at birth never was immoral as it never committed an immoral act.

All the baptism does is recognize that, and say unless you want to be consumed by this immoral nature, you need to find the right path, and stay true to it.

No, baptism is nothing like that. Baptism is saying that a baby must be forgiven for being immoral. The baby has done nothing immoral and should not be judged as such. Suggesting a baby is immoral for merely being a human is to judge everything for being what it is, and that's just fucking nonsensical. I should go lecture a tree for being a tree, an ant for being an ant, or grass for being grass.

No we don't. We have a couple methods that work sort-of well in certain situations.

1. Scientific method explicitely is only useful for investigating natural occurrences.

We live in a natural Universe, so you just described everything. The Scientific Method - by your definition - is only useful for investigating the Universe, which everything in the Universe consists of.

2. Science is limited by technology. This is not trivial. We understand not even the smallest fraction of what there is to understand in the universe, because you have not developed the right tools to probe things.

Yes, and so what? This in no way means that we should abandon what has proven to be above and beyond the best method we have. This in no way validate the use of proven faulty and ignorant methods of explaining things in ways we feel like explaining them.

We just recently discovered the Higg's boson. We don't even know folding mechanism for 99% of the proteins in our own bodies. We discover new species every day. We still don't have cures for several of the most common human ailments.

You appear to suggest that we should already be able to know or do anything with science - yet hold NO ACCOUNTABILITY for religions ability to do pretty much anything. You betray your own bias.

There are millions of ideas once held by religion that have been overruled and replaced by scientific fact. Name me one scientific fact that has been overruled and replaced by religious dogma? You cannot, because it hasn't happened. This lame attempt by you to undermine the scientific process while granting a free pass to the consistant failure of faith is painfully obvious.

See, we are still struggling with mundane, entry level (in the grand scheme of things) problems, and you are surprised science and technology is poorly equipped to try to probe God (if such a thing is even possible)

There is no evidence that ANY God exists AT ALL. You're taking something that has NO EVIDENCE of existing at all and are asserting specific arguments for it and applying it to everyone. This is extremely dishonest and intellectually lazy. At least in science when you do not know something you admit you do not know and you investigate in attempt to learn. You do not create your own answers and walk around preaching as if you have found truth.

You are indebted, you are just too stupid to realize it.

You cannot say that because you have no facts to base this claim. It is merely a personal opinion that you carry, and you carry it completely devoid of any verifiable truth. What's worse is that you do not appear bothered by this in the slightest. At no point do you consider that you are harshly judging people and the human race based on.... nothing. Nothing other than something you feel like doing or feel like accepting. That makes you immoral and quite stupid.
 
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