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I preface this with my family are good, my wife and I are doing great, 19yrs married, kids are healthy and my cat who went missing came back 12 days later! It's all good, but I'm on these dad support forums and fuck me if it isn't all people talking about divorce etc.
"I would do anything for my kids"
"I'd die to protect them"
"The greatest gift I ever had came from God. I call him my son." - Jim Valvano
"My greatest accomplishment is my children." - Jackie Chan
"My kids are my life. I would do anything for them." - Angelina Jolie
"Being a parent is the biggest sacrifice one can make. It's putting your life on hold to fulfill the promise of your children's tomorrow."
"I would give my life for my children without a second thought."
"My children are my everything. I would sacrifice anything for them."
"I am so grateful for my children. They are the best thing that has ever happened to me. I would do anything for them."
Yet pretty much everyone who decides they don't love their wife or husband enough is like, see ya, co parenting and fighting over the kids providing them with verifiably worse parenting,less consistent and often open to abuse from future partners of the ex.
It's got to be the real I would do anything for love but I won't do that.
Sorry kid, my happiness comes first, I absolutely can't just get along with the person I chose as life partner, whom I loved and sweared a vow to, naw I just can't suck it up for you kid. I've decided you're fine. So many dad's wondering what they can do about their ex introducing partners to the kids as soon as they meet em and the gnarly shit that goes down with that. I want to say this is your fucking bed man, you literally made it, what did you think would happen?
When you marry you vow to stay with them regardless. You agree to sacrifice. When you have kids you are ultimately responsible.
And yet.
Weak weak weak.
"I would do anything for my kids"
"I'd die to protect them"
"The greatest gift I ever had came from God. I call him my son." - Jim Valvano
"My greatest accomplishment is my children." - Jackie Chan
"My kids are my life. I would do anything for them." - Angelina Jolie
"Being a parent is the biggest sacrifice one can make. It's putting your life on hold to fulfill the promise of your children's tomorrow."
"I would give my life for my children without a second thought."
"My children are my everything. I would sacrifice anything for them."
"I am so grateful for my children. They are the best thing that has ever happened to me. I would do anything for them."
Yet pretty much everyone who decides they don't love their wife or husband enough is like, see ya, co parenting and fighting over the kids providing them with verifiably worse parenting,less consistent and often open to abuse from future partners of the ex.
It's got to be the real I would do anything for love but I won't do that.
Sorry kid, my happiness comes first, I absolutely can't just get along with the person I chose as life partner, whom I loved and sweared a vow to, naw I just can't suck it up for you kid. I've decided you're fine. So many dad's wondering what they can do about their ex introducing partners to the kids as soon as they meet em and the gnarly shit that goes down with that. I want to say this is your fucking bed man, you literally made it, what did you think would happen?
When you marry you vow to stay with them regardless. You agree to sacrifice. When you have kids you are ultimately responsible.
And yet.
Weak weak weak.