I thought I was the exception to the rule...apparently not.

philth said:
for a grown ass man, that is some pathetic shit right thur. (if true)
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Losing 20 year old pussy kind of sucks. I'm not sure you have tried it, but if you have you'd understand. Am I upset with the breakup? ehhh not really, more upset at the investment. Bad decision on my part.

Atheist said:
What rule did you think you were the exception to?
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10 year age difference could somehow work out. I have seen a lot of threads on here about this, and I was with my GF for a lot longer than most of the posters here. I thought we were fine until she turned into slut bags.
 
First off, my condolences, this is always difficult.

Going off you're summary here, I can sort of relate as I too at one time was with a 20 year old (started dating when she we were both 19, turned 20) who just could never keep her act together. Every problem had to be my problem. If someone didn't return a call she cussed them out. If she got sick she "swore she was dying." But when she wasn't flying off the rail, she was very pleasant and made me feel like a million bucks. I get it. You saw the positive part and went with them.

A side note on the weight issue - 5'8 and 140lbs isn't that bad, nowhere near "serious weight problems." I mean, that's not really skinny, but I guess we just have different expectations. :cool:

I'm behind you on the straddling the stranger thing on FB, too. That's not cool. How did that conversation go? I can sort of understand her claim, too - 20 year old, big city, sometimes it happens - but at the same time, nothing happens. Then again, I don't know either of you, just trying to understand how this conversation went.

Something I can advise is that no girl, ever, regardless of age, will be awesome all the time and forever. Every couple has serious fights, it's all about how you approach them and understand each other. Sometimes it takes months. My fiancee and I have been together seven years, we had a fight go on almost a year. But if you can work it out, you will. I'll probably get in a fight with her this weekend about something I didn't do. Shit happens.

Stay strong.

Here's your all alone picture -

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You've got money, indepence and freedom...wtf are you complaining about?

Oh no an emotionally unstable, potential cheater is leaving me. Boo hoo. Attach yourself to something better.
 
Bolshevik said:
nothing beats a good narcissist having his world crumbling around him.
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This made me lol

Look TS I know this is hard and it seems like you had a good time with her. You will have to move on and i'm sure you'll find that right girl soon, but for now you should have some fun and relax. You said you don't have a lot of time to meet people because of your work so I suggest some hookers and cocaine, hell maybe even fuck a tranny. Have fun for a while, you've earned it.
 
MiCavalier said:
First off, my condolences, this is always difficult.

Going off you're summary here, I can sort of relate as I too at one time was with a 20 year old (started dating when she we were both 19, turned 20) who just could never keep her act together. Every problem had to be my problem. If someone didn't return a call she cussed them out. If she got sick she "swore she was dying." But when she wasn't flying off the rail, she was very pleasant and made me feel like a million bucks. I get it. You saw the positive part and went with them.

A side note on the weight issue - 5'8 and 140lbs isn't that bad, nowhere near "serious weight problems." I mean, that's not really skinny, but I guess we just have different expectations. :cool:

I'm behind you on the straddling the stranger thing on FB, too. That's not cool. How did that conversation go? I can sort of understand her claim, too - 20 year old, big city, sometimes it happens - but at the same time, nothing happens. Then again, I don't know either of you, just trying to understand how this conversation went.

Something I can advise is that no girl, ever, regardless of age, will be awesome all the time and forever. Every couple has serious fights, it's all about how you approach them and understand each other. Sometimes it takes months. My fiancee and I have been together seven years, we had a fight go on almost a year. But if you can work it out, you will. I'll probably get in a fight with her this weekend about something I didn't do. Shit happens.

Stay strong.

Here's your all alone picture -

nms_jb_allalone_2.jpg
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Thanks bud, I'm not really that heartbroken about it. I knew it was gonna end, but I enjoyed the ride. I also have some vids and pics to remind me of the glory days.

As for the photo.
I just kind called her out on it. Then I became a little bit of a smart ass and started making fun of her. Then she left, and last time we talked was on google+ and I basically told her people don't do that type of stuff regardless of age. She said we should split up and I was fine with it. Kind of a mutual split you could say. But it still upset me seeing those pictures after all of the $ and time I spent on her.
 
lol, coming to Sherdog for emotional support might not be the best idea TS.

Don't worry about what anyone else says dude. Nobody can be where you are at, nobody else is you, in your shoes, and you don't have to explain anything to anyone.

You had a breakup, no matter what the age disparity is or where people are in their lives, it sucks to have a breakup. But, with time, and some whining and drinking and whatever else, you'll get over it. It helps to have someone to talk too and let it out too, a buddy or something like that, maybe call someone in your family or an old friend and let it all out. Only do that once though, don't become a nuisance. Drain those emotions and then try to have fun the next day. That usually helps you turn a corner after something emotional, it works for Irish wakes, breakups, whatever. Dump the emotions, have fun the next day, and then after that emotional high/low, you'll be able to reflect a little better.
 
SwamiLeoni said:
Thanks bud, I'm not really that heartbroken about it. I knew it was gonna end, but I enjoyed the ride. I also have some vids and pics to remind me of the glory days.

As for the photo.
I just kind called her out on it. Then I became a little bit of a smart ass and started making fun of her. Then she left, and last time we talked was on google+ and I basically told her people don't do that type of stuff regardless of age. She said we should split up and I was fine with it. Kind of a mutual split you could say. But it still upset me seeing those pictures after all of the $ and time I spent on her.
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You find pics of her with that guy on FB then you split up on Google+ lol
 
thefirstemporer said:
You've got money, indepence and freedom...wtf are you complaining about?

Oh no an emotionally unstable, potential cheater is leaving me. Boo hoo. Attach yourself to something better.
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No kidding, like I said I am not that hung up on it. It's just some BS I have nothing to look forward to coming home from work anymore....except the interweb


Aunty Dana said:
This made me lol

Look TS I know this is hard and it seems like you had a good time with her. You will have to move on and i'm sure you'll find that right girl soon, but for now you should have some fun and relax. You said you don't have a lot of time to meet people because of your work so I suggest some hookers and cocaine, hell maybe even fuck a tranny. Have fun for a while, you've earned it.
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Backpage.com?
 
SwamiLeoni said:
Thanks bud, I'm not really that heartbroken about it. I knew it was gonna end, but I enjoyed the ride. I also have some vids and pics to remind me of the glory days.

As for the photo.
I just kind called her out on it. Then I became a little bit of a smart ass and started making fun of her. Then she left, and last time we talked was on google+ and I basically told her people don't do that type of stuff regardless of age. She said we should split up and I was fine with it. Kind of a mutual split you could say. But it still upset me seeing those pictures after all of the $ and time I spent on her.
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Cool. Understood about the investment not paying off. That's always the risk with dating.

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SwamiLeoni said:
No kidding, like I said I am not that hung up on it. It's just some BS I have nothing to look forward to coming home from work anymore....except the interweb
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That's only temporary. Time to get yourself out there.
 
I commend you for hooking up with a young girl and making it last for more than 6 weeks.
 
HillRaiser said:
I imagine it was fluctuating and/or she was sensitive about it.

I don't know many girls that would be secure being heavier than their boyfriends.
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Ya that was the case. She was just a bit heavier than me, and girls typically like being held by bigger guys. She also knew that she wasn't the healthiest eater, and she tried to change it but couldn't. She was mentally weak I guess.

thefirstemporer said:
That's only temporary. Time to get yourself out there.
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Wish I could. 8-5 M-F Don't know anyone in town.
 
5'8" is too tall for a chick. That's almost Jessie Spano height and no one wanted to dance with that big bird.
 
Shawn91111 said:
Probably true. TS needs to eat
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Man, I have been trying so hard to gain weight. When I was in college I was weighing about 145 wrestling 133's. That was because I was burning all sorts of calories but eating twice as much. Now I have all of these supplements to try and get bigger (ones I took off of the Sherdog weight page) and I haven't learned how to properly use them.

was thinking about posting a pic of the ex for fun...but then cint entered the thread.
 
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