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Give the husband a one-way ticket to Suplex City.
Has she said that she wanted out?
If so, first stop for her would be the police station.
If not, I'd leave it well alone.
Why do girls go after bad guys nothing good comes out of it
Exactly so she likes it and will treat anybody that get in the way like trash no matter if he treats her good or want to help her. Fucked up mind set with these girls- Fun & Excitement
- Immaturity
- Low self-esteem
- Chasing validation
- Ignoring it due to sexual attraction to other qualities.
There are a plethora of reasons.
But this person is not currently equipped to be a good judge of that. That doesnt mean that just nothing can be done! So she is just doomed forever?
The only way to get someone out of a toxic relationship is to be a good friend and do things with her and help her develop healthy relationships with other people. For some people, the light switch flips and they realize what they are in isn't healthy. You can't flip that switch for them.
No kidding it's like trying to force an alcoholic to go to rehab when they have no intention on quitting.Sadly, yes.
An individual with the role of 'Captain Save A Hoe' is present in this vicinity. If she chooses to remain in the company of someone who subjects her to abusive behavior, it may suggest her acceptance of such treatment.
You’re gonna do far worse by putting that kid in the foster systemFirstly, the fifth kid needs to be put up for adoption, so that they have a chance at a stable home, love and a life away from guaranteed strife.
You’re gonna do far worse by putting that kid in the foster system
Sen7g if gogolt tranuslate cnacn deciftr thruf ..!., loldOh. What a repulsive and sickening thing to say.
Just asking for a friend of a friend.
Let's say this friend of ours is completely trapped in a toxic/abusive relationship with her now husband from their early adulthood. The partner of our friend, is a violent, verbally abusive, toxic person with known mental health issues. Not to justify the partner but he is a person that as a child was in and out of foster care, is an orphan, spent time in juvie and was in and out of prison so carries a lot of trauma which contributes to our friend feeling guilty about leaving them.
Our friend has four kids and is pregnant with #5. She has been out of the workforce for more than a decade, has strained family relationships as they have completely lost faith in her. The family has lost all faith and hope and they now have an estranged relationship, barely communicate.
Now the problem is, how do you help a person that feels so trapped and controlled that sees no way out, what even resources are available? What can be done if anything? She has no family to lie upon and no place to start when it comes of taking care of 5 kids on her own, nor has the courage to believe that the husband won't kill her if she leaves him. What can be done?
Yep. There are some things that once you do, can't be undone, and having five kids with an abusive career criminal in and out of juvie and then prison would be a great example of that.But this person is not currently equipped to be a good judge of that. That doesnt mean that just nothing can be done! So she is just doomed forever?