How do you let someone know

[Squirting Gun]

Offer him a rim job. Gheys never say no to a rim job.

I could probably arrange one with my nephews uncle. I dont even know how I would attempt that, im no gay pimp expert.

 

[zuffa zack**]

Have sex with him, its the only way to be sure

 

[Squirting Gun]

why do you care if he's gay

I dont care really. Its more of a friend holding back info from another that gets me. Its happened with my friends in the past about random shit. This is just obvious and I dont want a friend to feel like they have to hide shit.

 

[BearAKA**]

Leave a ricky martin cd on your porch with a box propped up by a stick over it. Invite him over and youll basically have him dead tp rights.

 

[tkotom]

I dont care really. Its more of a friend holding back info from another that gets me. Its happened with my friends in the past about random shit. This is just obvious and I dont want a friend to feel like they have to hide shit.

then maybe you're not as close as you think?

 

[Josh]

Well do you want me to apologize for talking about my life on here? Sorry I thought this was the Mayberry section, why are you threatened buy me?

Explain why you assume you're threatening?

There's no problem in your OP except that you're intolerant of another persons decisions regarding how he expresses his sexuality. Creating a thread about that is just a slam for attention, because it doesn't address any real problem or issue.

You're trying to say that you don't care, but in the OP you clearly state that you want him to behave in a different way than he is choosing to behave. What's your problem, why can't you leave him be? It's not really any of your business.

 

[LATEXXX COMMANDO]

Leave him alone. When he wants to tell people, he will.

This

 

[Squirting Gun]

then maybe you're not as close as you think?

I guess your right.

The only thing is his friends from 12-14 years ago he doesnt talk to either. Its just his prerogative I guess.

 

[Count Zero]

Just make a small note saying 'I KNOW' written in your own blood and leave it on his doorstep. He'll come to you asking for help/advice and you can politely ask him about his secrets. Flip that shit around. Make HIM tell YOU

This is hilarious

 

[Dizzy]

It's none of your business. Don't worry about it.

 

[0vary hugger**]

Mind your own business dude.Don't force your opinion on someone else.Maybe he is uncomfortable with you and you must act weird around him since you feel this way.
Leave him be.If he comes out of the closet it's his choice.

 

[Squirting Gun]

Explain why you assume you're threatening?

There's no problem in your OP except that you're intolerant of another persons decisions regarding how he expresses his sexuality. Creating a thread about that is just a slam for attention, because it doesn't address any real problem or issue.

You're trying to say that you don't care, but in the OP you clearly state that you want him to behave in a different way than he is choosing to behave. What's your problem, why can't you leave him be? It's not really any of your business.

Im not intolerant Ive just never been in this position with a friend before. Im simply asking for advice on this situation. Ive said in this thread if he doesnt want to tell me thats fine, im just asking if anyone has experience with this.

My previous thread has nothing to do with this one. You are the one that brought that up, not me. Unless you have any possible advice and/or guidance about this subject than please dont comment further.

 

[ocfightfan]

Here's an idea...mind your own business. Personally I wish people would keep their personal business to themselves, it's even worse that there are people like you that feel compelled to meddle.

 

[Squirting Gun]

Mind your own business dude.Don't force your opinion on someone else.Maybe he is uncomfortable with you and you must act weird around him since you feel this way.
Leave him be.If he comes out of the closet it's his choice.

I dont believe Ive acted weird but maybe I have. I just never hold anything back and maybe he seems a little intimidated or just uncomfortable to tell me. Thanks for the feed back.

 

[therealdope]

Mods: rename thread "How to mind your own business". It seems unanimous.

 

[Squirting Gun]

Here's an idea...mind your own business. Personally I wish people would keep their personal business to themselves, it's even worse that there are people like you that feel compelled to meddle.

Really, so you know me? This is the first time in my 28 years being here ive truly tried to be open and ask somebody about a personal issue(outside of a gf or family). Not that thats an issue but I consider him a good friend so I would just like to know. There is no judgement to be passed here, just a friend wanting to know who anther friend truly is.

 

[Squirting Gun]

Anyone else want to attack me for asking a question?

 

[Thrawn33]

Either:

A) He's gay, and not comfortable about telling you about it, because he's not secure in your friendship for some reason.

B) He's not really gay and you're completely wrong about him.

Either way, its not really your concern. Why do you want him to tell you? To make yourself feel better that you "knew it all along"?

Let dude life his own life. The only time as a good friend you need to pry into stuff is things that affect your buddy's physical and mental health. Obviously he's cool with whatever he's feeling, you should be too.

 

[Squirting Gun]

Either:

A) He's gay, and not comfortable about telling you about it, because he's not secure in your friendship for some reason.

B) He's not really gay and you're completely wrong about him.

Either way, its not really your concern. Why do you want him to tell you? To make yourself feel better that you "knew it all along"?

Let dude life his own life.

I can see both of those sides. I just feel like Ive been cool enough for him to not have to lie to me about other female relationships he has had. Maybe its not as cool as I think, I just want him to be comfortable. I dont push anything, yet his closest buddy told me he is cooler with me than over 95% of his friends.

If he happens to be straight its still cool. I just have my opinion and I might be completely wrong.

 

[Thrawn33]

I can see both of those sides. I just feel like Ive been cool enough for him to not have to lie to me about other female relationships he has had. Maybe its not as cool as I think, I just want him to be comfortable. I dont push anything, yet his closest buddy told me he is cooler with me than over 95% of his friends.

If he happens to be straight its still cool. I just have my opinion and I might be completely wrong.

Stop stressing it. I see too much "I" in your thinking. You might not know what is is best for your friend.