i'll share a few instances.
the first, was when i went to the house of a friend of a friend. my friend at the time worked at starbucks, and was working with a guy whose dad was the ceo of a huge company. the kid invited his friend, my buddy who worked at starbucks, along with who my buddy decided to bring. so he brought me and someone else. we go to the guys house, and it requires four different security gate checks before getting there lol. the house is a gigantic mansion. the type you see in the lifestyles of the rich and famous. the kid who lives there opens the door, and he looks coked out of his mind, with a gigantic ziploc bag of weed haha.
the guy was really nice and all, but you could tell that he had drug issues. there were workers there who cleaned and did the normal everyday chores for the family. they had their own home on the property, on the other side. that house, in-itself was the size of a normal two-story house. the kicker, was when the kid nonchalantly said, "oh, yeah joe montana lives a few blocks down there". that was when i'm like ok, this is a real upper-class place.
the second time was this past summer. though this guy didn't have a drug issue. in fact, he was as well put together as one can be, given his situation. this guy was a trust-fund kid. i met him last year while visiting denver. a very smart and nice dude actually. though you could tell that he had an air of superiority about him. he was the kind of guy who made it a point to ask you questions to judge you, to see if you lose composure. you could tell that he hung with a very elite crowd. anyway, after about a twenty minute chat, i was about to leave, and the guy not only paid for my drinks, he paid for my lunch! i was taken aback, but i thanked him.
he then asked if i wanted to join his crew that night. so i said sure. we got an uber to the area he lived in, and stopped by his place first. this guy was living in as nice a one-bedroom apartment as you can live in haha. a full bar, a pool table, and an incredible view of the denver skyline. we go out for dinner and drinks, and he pays for everything! my bill must have been at least $200. he bought me another uber to take me back to my hostel, and that was that.
so i'll say that my experiences have varied. no matter how much money you have, everyone still needs human connections to keep them grounded with reality.