In my home there is myself, my wife, 2 dogs (used to be 3 RIP Wizzle) and a cat. I work from home, my wife works as a Manager for a financial institution. I generally cook for my wife as I am home and am the better cook. I also clean a bit but she would rather be the one to clean as when I do she feels the need to clean anyway. We split the shopping. I do the Costco stuff and she does the regular grocery store and dollar store stuff. She wont step foot into a home depot and I refuse to go to the dollar store. I do most of the home maintenance stuff IE: cleaning gutters, sweeping the chimney, yard care. She does the touch up stuff like painting, refurbishing furniture, and such. These differences basically make us one functioning team that without the other alot of stuff would probably just not get done. To the Married folks is this about how it is for you? Or is it all a bit more one sided?