Social Have you ever gotten the "ick" from a woman?

[Crazy Source]

ive learned this with my sister. she doesnt want a solution, she just wants to bitch. man, does she want to bitch! lmao. i used to offer solutions to her problems and she'd straight up ignore them and continue bitching about something else related to the situation. so now i just go, "oh?" so she is prompted to continue on as she pleases lol.

She may not be a narcissist, but this is narcissistic behavior. They control the situation through chaos.

 

[liner]

You mean like when I took one for the team and got a BJ from this big Mormon girl because my buddy wanted to hook up with her friend. We were at the bar and he was just swiping right on Tinder. Any that matched, he'd message and say it's his birthday and they should come have a drink. It worked on that Mormon girl and she brought her large friend and the 4 of us ended up back at my place.

Wheres the ick part sounds like you should be thanking your buddy

 

[Sad Dad]

yes all the time, whenever a woman would say something vapid or thoughtless or show that she's not interested in thinking or engaging with anything in a passionate or intellectual way grosses me out. Women who think it's intrinsically valuable to be good looking and a woman, and women with no real hobbies or passions. They give me the "ick" and also make me really sad. I want a human being for a partner not a fucking doll or a maid. Very very grateful to my wife who is my best fucking friend

 

[MDoza]

I think the male equivalent of “the ick”, is just losing interest after you’ve slept with a girl.

For girls, it’s some event/act that indicates a man won’t be a good provider/protector for them and their children.

Both are natural.

 

[jeff7b9]

I got the drips once.

 

[pugilistico]

Yeah dude, the modern woman NEEDS to be right. Logic means nothing and it is about over talking and forcing a point that is ever changing.

I don't need or want someone who just agrees with me on everything, but being contentious and argumentative is just a huge turn off. It's a trend I noticed with American women more than other nationalities.

You hit the nail on the head on the rule of thumb. Even offering a solution is not recommended lol. Just listen.

A lot of guys, myself included, fall into a trap of trying to discuss things logically, finding a solution, and in general reacting to what a woman is saying. It may sound sexist but you kind of can't take what a woman says seriously. Just don't take anything personal. It's vastly improved my relationships with women after realizing this.

You have to of course be careful about the kind of women you invite into your life too. That's why the "ick" is kind of important too. At the risk of being closed minded, I've been much more vigilant of red flags, icks, etc.

 

[Joe_Armstrong]

Let´s say my name is Lenny but I use the name Leonard on Tinder.
I once had a whole Tinder conversation with a match and told her my real name is Lenny.
When we had a date, she messaged me she was late and adressed me as Leonard, which means she didn´t listen or process our conversation.

 

[The_Renaissance]

Self-harm scars, 100%.

Physically unattractive + mental illness is a massive no no for me.

 

[Red Beard]

This is the bloody problem... the more girly and proper a woman is, the worse that problem becomes.

They don't want to fart in front of anyone, spend the whole day holding it in, so when they go to bed they are absolutely full of gas and in their sleep, they just fart like a trooper... Somehow most women don't seem to even realise this happens.

Kevin Samuels...
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Always need to pay our respects to the Godfather. He is the reason as a young kid that I started avoiding the modern black diva. I used to exclusively date highly educated black women. Now, I see the error in my ways and I got me a high value woman. He would be killing it if he was still alive.

 

[Red Beard]

I don't need or want someone who just agrees with me on everything, but being contentious and argumentative is just a huge turn off. It's a trend I noticed with American women more than other nationalities.


A lot of guys, myself included, fall into a trap of trying to discuss things logically, finding a solution, and in general reacting to what a woman is saying. It may sound sexist but you kind of can't take what a woman says seriously. Just don't take anything personal. It's vastly improved my relationships with women after realizing this.

You have to of course be careful about the kind of women you invite into your life too. That's why the "ick" is kind of important too. At the risk of being closed minded, I've been much more vigilant of red flags, icks, etc.

I don't want meek you are absolutely right here. Agreeable to me implies the women don't have this overwhelming sensation to always be right. I have had my fair share of arguments with women where they do this one tactic that is such a bullshit tactic. They basically go through their memories and grab any mistakes you made in history to compound their argument. Like they want to show a pattern or something. Then, when you highlight that, what do they do??? Cry. It is not talked about enough how manipulative that tactic is. These Hallmark hoes bringing zero value lol

 

[Crazy Source]

Self-harm scars, 100%.

Physically unattractive + mental illness is a massive no no for me.

I worked with someone that was a cutter. I actually tried having a conversation with her about it after we had known each other for several months and had gotten along well. She shut me out after that. Some people either don't want or can't accept help. SHRUG.

 

[west42]

I remember the first time my now wife farted in front of me, she was absolutely mortified. I quickly let one rip too by means of support, I think it worked out ha ha

What the hell are you people eating that you can fart on demand?!?

 

[lsa]

Stupidity.
I cant handle stupid chicks.

 

[SalvadorAllende]

I guess any girl who dates TS would get the "ICK" if she reads this thread.

 

[wufabufa]

The ultimate ick is a lack of personal hygiene. I stopped seeing a girl that was extra musky. Not sure if she wasn't showering properly or if she had bacterial vaginosis but it stunk all the damn time. I don't know if it's coincidence but all of the women I've dated that have blue/green eyes and lighter colored hair all had a pretty strong odor. Dark hair and dark eyes, no problem. Maybe my nose is broken or it's genetic and my body is seeking out women who are truly compatible. I guess that's a thing. Sometimes specific people smell bad to a select group of others.

 

[ssBaldy]

The ultimate ick is a lack of personal hygiene. I stopped seeing a girl that was extra musky. Not sure if she wasn't showering properly or if she had bacterial vaginosis but it stunk all the damn time. I don't know if it's coincidence but all of the women I've dated that have blue/green eyes and lighter colored hair all had a pretty strong odor. Dark hair and dark eyes, no problem. Maybe my nose is broken or it's genetic and my body is seeking out women who are truly compatible. I guess that's a thing. Sometimes specific people smell bad to a select group of others.

Seems it is either bad luck or personal preference. The darker the skin and hair, the more noticeable (not judging, it can actually be good) the body scent, it's just how human skin works.
Pussy-wise it mostly depends on the hygiene, though, as an infection or chronical lack of washing overwhelms anything else.

 

[ColemanwastheGOAT]

There's the obvious stuff like when they act generally masculine but that's not really an ick as that's a constant thing. Like a loud masculine voice is just immediate no.

As far as those little things that give me the 'ick' Loud yawning or burping is at the top of the list. A woman who does a cute little yawn or burp can be endearing but when they let it rip, it's no bueno.

 

[jeff7b9]

I don't need or want someone who just agrees with me on everything, but being contentious and argumentative is just a huge turn off. It's a trend I noticed with American women more than other nationalities.


A lot of guys, myself included, fall into a trap of trying to discuss things logically, finding a solution, and in general reacting to what a woman is saying. It may sound sexist but you kind of can't take what a woman says seriously. Just don't take anything personal. It's vastly improved my relationships with women after realizing this.

You have to of course be careful about the kind of women you invite into your life too. That's why the "ick" is kind of important too. At the risk of being closed minded, I've been much more vigilant of red flags, icks, etc.

So I am fortunate to have learned LONG ago (benefit of a relationship started real real young, 15 in my case)

Is that a LOT of people get caught in the "power struggle" phase of a relationship.

Girls want to change a guy. Guys want to control a girl, fuck if I know how it works with gay or bi folks...

But

If you just let that go... (perhaps a big ask for a lot of folks)

Man. The whole thing can be just straight up EASY.

Like playing life with a cheat code.

Just be on the same team. It's that easy.
You don't need to agree.
You don't need to force your worldview on the other.

 

[Zer]

What the hell are you people eating that you can fart on demand?!?

This is just a genetic ability of Australian people, developed to scare away all the spiders and snakes and crocs and also attract other aussies

 

[William Huggins]

Yeah, a chick gave me the ick once ...but the doctor gave me a course of antibiotics, that cleared that right up.

I needed a chuckle....... thanks