Social Have you ever gotten the "ick" from a woman?

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"The ick" is a casual term used to describe a sudden feeling of disgust, repulsion, or loss of attraction toward someone you’re dating or interested in. It’s often triggered by a specific behavior, habit, or trait that feels off-putting or cringeworthy. Once someone "catches the ick," it can be hard to regain romantic interest, even if the reason seems trivial to outsiders. This is usually observed by women regarding men, and most of it seems to boil down to "he displayed [insert behavior] so he's not a real man in my eyes anymore."

Some of it seems to range from absolutely ridiculous (woman getting the ick from her husband taking a nap after a hard day's work), to imo legitimate (one of my friends said she'd get the ick if she saw grown men who can't swim and are afraid of the water). In retrospect, I definitely have observed women getting the ick from me in the past.

Have you as a man, gotten the "ick" from something a woman did?

I didn't understand this until I went on a date with a woman who started squealing out of fear because a butterfly flew past her face. Something about a grown adult getting scared of a butterfly made me lose all respect for her. Immediately I knew then I wasn't going to even bang her. I wanted to end the date then and there but I wanted to be polite so I waited until we were done eating and I drove her home and immediately left after. That's when I realized this is the "ick" women walk about.
 
Dunno that I'd call it "the ick", but yeah, definitely. For me it's often one of the following if I hear a certain thing or she acts a certain way:

<{nope}>[<diva2]<1>
 
Once a girl I knew sent me a nude video. The turnoff was when I noticed slight camera rotations- her phone was not standing by itself, someone was there filming her, while she told me she was alone.
Instant boner killer.
 
Once a girl I knew sent me a nude video. The turnoff was when I noticed slight camera rotations- her phone was not standing by itself, someone was there filming her, while she told me she was alone.
Instant boner killer.
Maybe it was another chick and she was gonna surprise you with a threesome. Your loss bro
 
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Started talking to a girl in a bar,
2nd sentences she told me was
I was in an orgy last night.
Me and 4 guys.

I said bitch, that's called a gangbang.
And left .
I was hooking up with one chick and I found out she had or was fucking a bunch of other guys I know. That just turned me off from wanting to bang her again. For someone who gets around so much she was boring in bed.
 
One time this tall chick was doing this small cute girl shit in my car. She started to take off her shoes and putting her big ass size 9 feet on my dashboard. She is just too big to be doing this type of stuff. In my mind I am just like you are 6'1. This is like one of those youtube videos where a tiger pretends to be a house cat.
 
Once she starts feeling comfortable enough to fart and not hide her sloppy bad-diet shits.

I eat a relatively clean diet and hydrate adequately every day; but I'm a man and men are gross, so if you are a women that takes louder and nastier shits than me without caring to hide that... just, ew.
 
One time this tall chick was doing this small cute girl shit in my car. She started to take off her shoes and putting her big ass size 9 feet on my dashboard. She is just too big to be doing this type of stuff. In my mind I am just like you are 6'1. This is like one of those youtube videos where a tiger pretends to be a house cat.
Chicks in general who try hard to act cute are a turn off for me. This is why I don't really go for east Asian women. Way too hyper feminine and girly for me. Act like an adult please.
 
Did i read this wrong ?
Didnt you meant the other way around from which all the guys are answering ? As in, when a woman gets turned off by one of our actions or habits ?
 
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