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had a great father's day, my kids made me shirts, hand drawn tee's, and the older ones must have spent hours on this, very nice drawings. They made it for their adopted grandfather, he doesnt have any biological children, however we've adopted him as their designated grandfather even though their biological grandfather was also there, we all took photos with our tees and had a nice bbq, so much red meat, I am blessed to have kids that dont hate me............................ that much ;)

wife gave me nothing, no handsies, we generally avoid any play on holidays, it's too much of a responsibility, a few days prior though.....

father's day is the best day around here, generally a bigger deal than mother's day, simply be cause mothers of all kinds dont get along all that well, where my group of dads is real solid.
 
chardog said:
A 2017 study in Demography found single dads spend 10% more time on child-related activities (e.g., homework help) than single moms, controlling for work hours.
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Children of single fathers report fewer emotional problems, possibly due to more consistent discipline and engagement. A 2016 Journal of Marriage and Family study found single dads are more likely to enforce rules (e.g., bedtimes, screen limits), correlating with better adjustment.
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Better mental health outcomes, possibly due to higher income and social support (e.g., workplace flexibility). A 2020 Social Science Research study found single dads report higher life satisfaction (60% vs. 45% for single moms).
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women are inferior parents despite the lies you've been told, they have very nice mammary glands that that's it
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- It's was a joke.Common.
 
chardog said:
you're not into mammarii?
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- Mammari? The numbers show how a failure single mons are at rising male kids. That's is why almost every culture in the world has male figures helping rise male kids.
 
LeonardoBjj said:
- Since i am a leftist: Happy sperm donnor day. Woman can be better dads than man are, thats why they have great succes rising kids alone.

Suck that:D

Happy fathers day. Our fathers day is in August here!
Congratulations for all dads, for not rising your sons over-protected retards.
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lol... Well, I'm a fulltime single dad of 3 girls. 17 year old twins and a 21 year old who's still living with me while in college.

The 21 year old is actually my step-daughter... but her mom (divorced 5 years) turned into an alcoholic with a few DUI's and caused some major drama (posted a Mayberry Thread about those adventures). And her dad is a POS.

So she calls me Dad and I've raised her since she was 18 months old.

I've seen a lot of shit and there's plenty of great moms and great dads... but there's also lots of shit moms and fathers.

So here's to the fathers who grind it out everyday and are present for their kids. Whether if it's sports, school functions or just making dinner and making sure everyone eats together once a day and puts their phones away for 30 minute or so.

That last part is a huge deal for me and my girls
 
LeonardoBjj said:
- I missed thaf part. Maybe he is Al Bundy?
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If it weren't for the amazing women in my family from my great grandmothers to my grandmothers and to my mother my family would have been a much lonelier place. Piss on anyone that discounts a Father's place or a Mother's place. Anyone doing that is incredibly insecure.
 
Crazy Source said:
Love the simple utilitarian boat. Looking good brother. Kiddo has good balance.
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This is my dinghy. Like my car when we are in the Bahamas for getting to and from shore. My boat is a 45ft catamaran.

That photo was at Shroud Cay. Huge mangrove loop that you just idle through.

The kid is a water baby. Thanks for compliment on balance. That is the one athletic skill that transitions to all aspects of sports and life.
 
LeonardoBjj said:
- Mammari? The numbers show how a failure single mons are at rising male kids. That's is why almost every culture in the world has male figures helping rise male kids.
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Mammaries (auto correct fail)

single mom epidemic is not good for society, not well adjusted people.

correlated to higher burglars, rapists, violent crime, gang activity, you name it. I'd even argue that the kids would be better off in polygyny households where they accept and live with one father around multiple mothers.
 
Stoic1 said:
This is my dinghy. Like my car when we are in the Bahamas for getting to and from shore. My boat is a 45ft catamaran.

That photo was at Shroud Cay. Huge mangrove loop that you just idle through.

The kid is a water baby. Thanks for compliment on balance. That is the one athletic skill that transitions to all aspects of sports and life.
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I've never gone fishing down there. It looks like a fantastic place to catch snook and tarpon. Balance and core strength does indeed translate well.
 
chardog said:
A 2017 study in Demography found single dads spend 10% more time on child-related activities (e.g., homework help) than single moms, controlling for work hours.
---------------
Children of single fathers report fewer emotional problems, possibly due to more consistent discipline and engagement. A 2016 Journal of Marriage and Family study found single dads are more likely to enforce rules (e.g., bedtimes, screen limits), correlating with better adjustment.
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Better mental health outcomes, possibly due to higher income and social support (e.g., workplace flexibility). A 2020 Social Science Research study found single dads report higher life satisfaction (60% vs. 45% for single moms).
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women are inferior parents despite the lies you've been told, they have very nice mammary glands that that's it
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I'd wonder if single Dads might report more happiness because raising the kids on their own was something they pursued through legal means (on average) as opposed to the social trend of women just being saddled with the responsibility after being in relationships where they might not have even wanted kids when they had them, but were expected to provide them, then were abandoned. My Grandmother was a pretty miserable Mom, her husband in Vietnam for 8 years, all their kids births corresponding with his shore leave, and religious ideology against contraception as a general concept. Just a thought.

Dads being more involved in activities isnt all its cracked up to be. As a Coach there isnt anything worse than a Dad who overdoes it with his kids. Rules had to be changed here in Vegas because a guy was taking his Son to spar up to 3 times a day at different gyms, and he wasnt a certified Coach. Kid had a headache one night and went to sleep, never woke back up. Subdural hematoma. 16 years-old. I've only seen a crazy Mom once or twice, generally they leave the Coaching to the Coaches. Dads have a bad habit of vicarious living and we see that up to a couple times a month. I train a 12 year-old who has 4 months of boxing under his belt and his Dad started an instagram page for him saying he's an up-and-coming Professional Boxer and keeps skipping training sessions to take the kid to fights to get pictures with fighters no one cares about to put them on the Instagram page. We had to have a conversation about that.

 
Scerpi said:
lol... Well, I'm a fulltime single dad of 3 girls. 17 year old twins and a 21 year old who's still living with me while in college.

The 21 year old is actually my step-daughter... but her mom (divorced 5 years) turned into an alcoholic with a few DUI's and caused some major drama (posted a Mayberry Thread about those adventures). And her dad is a POS.

So she calls me Dad and I've raised her since she was 18 months old.

I've seen a lot of shit and there's plenty of great moms and great dads... but there's also lots of shit moms and fathers.

So here's to the fathers who grind it out everyday and are present for their kids. Whether if it's sports, school functions or just making dinner and making sure everyone eats together once a day and puts their phones away for 30 minute or so.

That last part is a huge deal for me and my girls
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- Congratulations on rising the kids. I was lucky to have good parents. I just wish my mom wasnt over protective.
 
Crazy Source said:
If it weren't for the amazing women in my family from my great grandmothers to my grandmothers and to my mother my family would have been a much lonelier place. Piss on anyone that discounts a Father's place or a Mother's place. Anyone doing that is incredibly insecure.
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- My mom brother is a scumbag. His kids. All four cant stand him. Chronicle liar and thief. So their mom rised them alone.
 
Sinister said:
I'd wonder if single Dads might report more happiness because raising the kids on their own was something they pursued through legal means (on average) as opposed to the social trend of women just being saddled with the responsibility after being in relationships where they might not have even wanted kids when they had them, but were expected to provide them, then were abandoned. My Grandmother was a pretty miserable Mom, her husband in Vietnam for 8 years, all their kids births corresponding with his shore leave, and religious ideology against contraception as a general concept. Just a thought.

Dads being more involved in activities isnt all its cracked up to be. As a Coach there isnt anything worse than a Dad who overdoes it with his kids. Rules had to be changed here in Vegas because a guy was taking his Son to spar up to 3 times a day at different gyms, and he wasnt a certified Coach. Kid had a headache one night and went to sleep, never woke back up. Subdural hematoma. 16 years-old. I've only seen a crazy Mom once or twice, generally they leave the Coaching to the Coaches. Dads have a bad habit of vicarious living and we see that up to a couple times a month. I train a 12 year-old who has 4 months of boxing under his belt and his Dad started an instagram page for him saying he's an up-and-coming Professional Boxer and keeps skipping training sessions to take the kid to fights to get pictures with fighters no one cares about to put them on the Instagram page. We had to have a conversation about that.

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- I remember reading that story before. I was always voicerus(spell?) Against kids doing sparring in taekwondo. I was watching a tournament in 2007/9, and a 14 year got knocked out cold. The public started cheering. Was horrible, was a kid, and the same people would be against adultos doing the same in mma.

Also, parents that go watch the classes and cheer their kids are the worst.
 
chardog said:
Mammaries (auto correct fail)

single mom epidemic is not good for society, not well adjusted people.

correlated to higher burglars, rapists, violent crime, gang activity, you name it. I'd even argue that the kids would be better off in polygyny households where they accept and live with one father around multiple mothers.
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- I think the kids would be rised better by a couple of lesbians than a single mom
 
LeonardoBjj said:
- My mom brother is a scumbag. His kids. All four cant stand him. Chronicle liar and thief. So their mom rised them alone.
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That's a pretty common theme in America. When the family unit breaks apart the biggest need is stability and love and that can come from anyone that steps in to do it.
 
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