You just can't accept the truth. Treat people right and don't be a total dick and it won't ever happen. People think servers are entitled and that's not true. We know absolutely when we give bad service and we know we don't deserve a great tip, however when we know we gave great service, went above and beyond and gave a great experience and get shafted simply because you "don't believe in tipping" it's game on. We didn't create the system, hell I don't even like the system but it's the system. You can't claim ignorance. You know we rely on tips and you know we make 2.13 an hour. If you choose to go out to eat then tipping will be involved. If you can't afford it don't go out. If you can afford it and just choose not to, your food is fucked. That simple. I do it all the time to repeats. Just the other day the dick hole that has stiffed me three times came in. He mentioned to his friend that he didn't tip me because he doesn't believe in it. I simply smiled and in my mind knew far in advance I had already had the last laugh the moment he took a drink of his soda.