Relationships Guys wife came out as asexual

[cincymma79]

Cliffs

Married 15 years
She comes out asexual
Gives him materials on how to handle not getting laid
When he talks about it she threatens half his retirement and to take the house

How would you handle this? I’d tell her I want to work it out, cash in my retirement, blow it all, second mortgage on the house to erase any equity, pay off any debts I had besides the house with that money, whores and blow, quit my job if I hated it and was only doing it for the money, find another one I actually like, let everything fall into bankruptcy if I can’t sell the house first, make sure I had texts where I said I was quitting my job I hate to spend more time at home trying to make it work, have more where I was saying we may have to give some things up, sell everything not bolted down, and then file for divorce after a year or so of that paper trail. Make sure we’re splitting half of nothing.

Option two
Most of the above just stopping after paying off any debts so you have a clean start



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[Zer]

I'd assume she's fucking all my friends and start gathering evidence for the divorce

 

[Pittie Petey]

Good, one less pressure on me

 

[Sonny Qc]

Never stay in a relationship that is dead in the bedroom.

 

[Tito Tapped]

You go for the annulment, not divorce.

 

[JangoMike]

Bang other broads on the side & slowly place your assets into a Trust. Talk to a Lawyer about a clever way to save your Retirement....

 

[lsa]

I'd assume she's fucking all my friends and start gathering evidence for the divorce

evidence?
You mean you fucked all your friends too?

 

[cincymma79]

I'd assume she's fucking all my friends and start gathering evidence for the divorce

That’s the most likely scenario

 

[Lycandroid]

Don't waste 5 more seconds. It is psychologically damaging to be an asexual relationship if you aren't asexual.

 

[ezikel315]

I know a woman who's husband is asexual. Apparently after they got married he one day realized he's not interested in sex at all. They're in an open relationship and she travels and has flings with guys. She showed interest in me but I thought if I was married to her I would lose interest in sex too.

 

[method115]

I'd assume she's fucking all my friends and start gathering content for pornhub

fixed it for you.

 

[philcrow]

Kill her. The asexual excuse for her affair is whatever, but running an extortion racket has consequences.

Go on a drive, she's in the passenger seat, go at least 50 and line her up with a tree or telephone pole. Then chug a bottle of booze and give an Oscar winning performance for the cops on how you can't believe your wife's a mangled mess of pork slab meets metal. Few years in prison is better than a lifetime of labor out the window for some cunt who thinks you need to financially subsidize her existence even though she doesn't like you anymore.

 

[Cherry Brigand]

Kill her. The asexual excuse for her affair is whatever, but running an extortion racket has consequences.

Go on a drive, she's in the passenger seat, go at least 50 and line her up with a tree or telephone pole. Then chug a bottle of booze and give an Oscar winning performance for the cops on how you can't believe your wife's a mangled mess of pork slab meets metal. Few years in prison is better than a lifetime of labor out the window for some cunt who thinks you need to financially subsidize her existence even though she doesn't like you anymore.

Bonus: you can have all the prison sex you want which is why I think you conCOCKed it.

 

[Tp4myBungHole]

So instead of giving her 1/2, you want to blow it all and go into debt?

 

[Batjester]

Chris Benoit has entered the chat...

 

[Streeter]

First I hire a PI to follow her a few months to see if she's cheating. When I had proof I would get divorced unless in a no fault state. If a no fault state then your stuck and need to just bite the bullet and move on.

If ypu want to get crazy spend all your money and leverage house and cars - then get divorced and she gets nothing.

 

[Bob Gray]

Cliffs
Married 15 years
She comes out asexual
Gives him materials on how to handle not getting laid
When he talks about it she threatens half his retirement and to take the house
How would you handle this?

 

[Intermission]

It's tough getting married

 

[liner]

I think I'd start fucking other women

 

[Gutter Chris]

Never stay in a relationship that is dead in the bedroom.

I mean if it's wilful . But I dunno if you should divorce your wife over say a health issue or something like that. This has happened in my marriage and it was not fun. But it wasn't her fault or an act of cruelty either

Marriage is a life long commitment, a health issue might happen but I would say declaring yourself asexual should be totally out of bounds and not something your wife/husband should even be allowed to do.

I seriously think no fault divorce should be banned and that the person who caused an at fault one should be the one punished/ gets the shit end of the deal. But I've been told that's an extremist view and unfortunately life doesn't work that way.

I suppose it was the use of the word never that I thought bad advice