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Guy advice- Is this girl just stringing me along?

gloxx said:
shes no virgin. shes only been with one guy before though. shes only 20. yeah.. i guess I need to have that talk with her, even if it might mean pissing her off or ending it right away.
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If she says one guy, it is zero or three. Seems like a zero kinda chick.
Have patience.
 
Well you obviously care about this chick if you've taken her out 10 times, just give it at at least a little longer, the anticipation should make the sex a little better anyways

just my two cents
 
EZRA27 said:
The rule of 3.

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If ever was a case of whipping it out, now is the time.
 
gloxx said:
Been dating this girl for 3 weeks. She's fun, really good looking. But since then, no sex. Make out, feel her up, never got any further. She throws out hints she wants to have sex all the time. Last week she even said specifically we would have sex soon while we were fooling around at her apt

Anyway she asked me to be her bf today. I was like ok.. expecting to finally get some when we were in a relationship.

But NOPE... later today she started asking me about what kind of position I like.. etc. Then mentioned that she wanted to wait a while! Psh, I don't want to be in a committed relationship where I swear myself to celibacy. I could kinda tolerate it while we weren't officially a couple, and I could meet other women. But I'm not a monk and I don't intend to be. I'm not looking for a booty call.. but damn. My ex put out first night. I've never waited this long around for a woman. Feels bad man.

She keeps throwing me hints she wants to do it, but then backs off at the last minute. She just stringing me along? We go on pricy dates too.. I pay most all of the time. I don't want to get used either.
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It's time to start being yourself.
 
gloxx said:
it's been a few weeks already. I just don't want to have a girlfriend who isn't going to put out for me. Not fair for her to ask me to see her exclusively and not have sex of any kind. Thinking about just asking to go back to dating casually.. don't know how to do that tactfully though.

Yeah, I'm definitely knocking out the expensive dates. How long you think I should wait while giving her rope?
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Maybe she (or some magazine article or her fat friend buzzing in her ear) has a timeline in her head of how long to wait? Kind of superficial but so is looking for a timeline in which she let you bang bro.

It seems like this is something you two need to talk about. Next time she puts on the brakes, ask her and be cool about it. Make it about her and what she wants. Make sure to point out how obviously she gets your motor going and that you assume vice versa. If you can remember to maintain physical contact during this talk (particularly her on lap and/or hands on her ribs or behind the knee area as you have to be n an intimate position to do so comfortably.)

Tell her that it's not about getting your nut off but about getting her comfortable in an adult relationship. A twenty-year-old with one prior boyfriend will eat that up like it's got gravy on it. If she wants to be sure, ask her if she feels any different now than when decided to make out with you the first time. Tell her that you don't regret asking her out, you don't regret kissing her and that all you can think about is how you want to keep on finding things with her that you won't regret.

If she doesn't maul you (in which case just shut up and let it happen) when you see her off, give a real Hollywood deep bruising kiss with a hip (hip, not ass) or small of the back grab and walk off. Next available weekend, she should show up with an overnight bag. If not, bang a random. By Murphy's Law, the first girl will suddenly be all ready to go ATM while wearing a Wonder Woman costume.
 
sleepwalk said:
Maybe she (or some magazine article or her fat friend buzzing in her ear) has a timeline in her head of how long to wait? Kind of superficial but so is looking for a timeline in which she let you bang bro.

It seems like this is something you two need to talk about. Next time she puts on the brakes, ask her and be cool about it. Make it about her and what she wants. Make sure to point out how obviously she gets your motor going and that you assume vice versa. If you can remember to maintain physical contact during this talk (particularly her on lap and/or hands on her ribs or behind the knee area as you have to be n an intimate position to do so comfortably.)

Tell her that it's not about getting your nut off but about getting her comfortable in an adult relationship. A twenty-year-old with one prior boyfriend will eat that up like it's got gravy on it. If she wants to be sure, ask her if she feels any different now than when decided to make out with you the first time. Tell her that you don't regret asking her out, you don't regret kissing her and that all you can think about is how you want to keep on finding things with her that you won't regret.

If she doesn't maul you (in which case just shut up and let it happen) when you see her off, give a real Hollywood deep bruising kiss with a hip (hip, not ass) or small of the back grab and walk off. Next available weekend, she should show up with an overnight bag. If not, bang a random. By Murphy's Law, the first girl will suddenly be all ready to go ATM while wearing a Wonder Woman costume.
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this is boss advice. thank you.
 
Do you lift? If not start lifting. If you do she ain't worth it
 
giovanni002 said:
It's better to ask her straight to the point. Ask her what exactly you two are doing, and be honest on what you want and take out the excess baggage
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God this. I don't know why you single guys make things so damn hard. I was never like that when I was single.


My first thought was maybe she saving herself for marriage.
 
Sleepwalk has been around the block, hell I'd sleep with him
 
whip it out and say "what are we gonna do about this"
 
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