Girlfriend / wife dancing with other men

TheMaster said:
Dancing, especially ones like salsa is basically a sex game.
So no.
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A lot of people, male and female, do see it as a form of foreplay. Close contact, eye contact fixed in a close-up position etc.

Put it this way, pretty much every girl I've met/worked with who dances salsa in her spare time has gushed over the guys there. It's been their go-to topic when discussing salsa classes with other girls, when I've overheard it. Not saying every girl sees things this way, but a hell of a lot do.
 
lsa said:
Which tells me you have trust issues, and you have just started dating.
What about trusting her to she gives you a reason not to?
Has she already given you a reason not to trust her? If so break it off.

Most things happen before banging, like meeting, talking, mutual attraction.
Does she have co-workers? Does she go to the gym? AWs with a few drinks?
I mean there are men everywhere..
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Wanting grindy dance attention from other men would be a reason.
 
Only if I'm allowed to spicy salsa dance with other girls while she watches.
 
This all comes down to the specific dynamics of the specific couple at that time.

If you’re the one attracting life’s energy at that time, you probably don’t care who she dances with … it’s probably innocent, but if she behaves in an manner disrespectful to you, then just cut her loose and get a better one.

But if you’re in between life’s peaks at the time, and she wants a girls night out dancing …she’s probably out shopping for a better deal.

Dancing can be either innocent flirty fun, or the prelude to fucking and beginning a new relationship, depending on the life circumstances of the partners.

Threetrees said:
Me personally I wouldn’t take that level of disrespect

but then again I’m not of cuck descent
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This reminds me of those "my gf doesn't like when I roll with other girls at BJJ classes" threads.
 
i have a rule in cases like this - whatever you allow the dude to do to you, i'll do to three other women.
works quite well. message is sent and they understand limits.
 
I'm not a dancer either, so I understand your dilemma. I would say communication is key.
 
Nope. My wife and I are very touchy-feely. We hold hands a lot, sit very close or play footsie under the table. It isn't necessarily sexual, though sometimes is surely is. But it's always intimate. Everyone else can keep his fucking meat hooks off. Jealous? Maybe. Hell, I don't know. But she's gorgeous and we've been together for 30 years so we're doing something right.
 
Depends on the kind of dancing and who it’s with. If it’s just ballroom hand on waist and hands kind of thing, sure. But if it’s grinding and embracing, then no. That’s starting to break a boundary. I wouldn’t do that to my wife either. It’s more about respect than anything else for me.
 
I wouldn't like it. Not my thing, wouldn't date a girl who does because it's a passion that takes two and I'm not into it. Dancing is pretty close to dry humping in some ways, so nah wouldn't want my girl scheduling weekly sessions with Pablo.

I've dated Latina girls and have danced with a few, and I know it made my dink move so I dont want a dink pushing up against her body that isn't mine.
 
Dogshare said:
Would you like it, accept it, or don't accept it? I am talking about some dance like salsa dancing.

I just met a beautifull girl (will not send pics...) and she tells me she likes to dance salsa and some other of those dances. I don't like to invest my time in dancing like that, but as a joke I told her that I better start practicing in that case, since it is not something I would like to watch from the side. I am sure many men will be interested in dancing with her.

When you look at the internet many people say that you should accept your partner dancing with others and don't be insecure if you trust your partner etc.. But in that case I rather look for some nice girl that likes to run or something like that, because I don't like to cheer from the sidelines when my girlfriend/wife is dancing with other men.
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Your name is Dogshare...but won't share pics...thats a misleading name.

Jokes aside, I've seen this before. I went to Jamaica for vacation and went to a club. Danced with this woman (who was 20 and i was 23), while talking with her while dancing...found out she has a husband who was sitting at a nearby table just drinking and watching us dance. The dude was old, he looked 50...wearing that Dale hat from The Walking Dead and all.
After I'm done dancing with her, i go get a drink and the woman is dancing with new men, she was basically working her way around the dance floor.
I did end up talking to the husband and asked the downlow (mind you, never seen an old man with a young wife outside of movies). He tells me that he's a photographer and shes a model for things like Sears catalogues...not the catwalk kind as she was anorexia looking.
I then ask him how he feels about her dancing around, and he said he doesn't care because he knows that she will be going home with him.
 
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