Girlfriend (actually) acting like a child

[Madmick]

[QUOTE=Aas Gut

 

[Malas]

I think the guy was being an asshole on purpose to generate that kind of a response. Then to put it up on youtube suggests he's not as mature as he thinks he is.

Did she act childish? Oh hell yeah. They obviously had some major issues that couldn't be sorted out but I contend that it's because they're incapable of taking a mature stance.

He probably distributed the video as a response to her texting everyone about how bad of a person he is. This had all clearly happened before, save for his taking a video.

 

[J0N0]

Unless I'm missing something, I'm not really sure how her changing the tone of her voice is that big of a deal tbh (?). Is it that you find it embarrassing cuz she doesn't it in front other people? Cuz macho posturing aside, anyone itt who says a girl's never baby talked to them in privacy has never been in a relationship.

 

[Aas Gutú Adéli]

I agree you with ASA that guys who make fun of "white knighting" are usually being ridiculous, but he's talking about a different situation. It was the YouTube that husband made of his wife throwing a tantrum in their car a while back.



Oh, crap, scrolled up and I see it's already been posted.

Yeah, he was responding to a tangent, I see that now. I just have been around Mayberry too much apparently!

 

[Rex Kwon Do]

I agree you with ASA that guys who make fun of "white knighting" are usually being ridiculous, but he's talking about a different situation. It was the YouTube that husband made of his wife throwing a tantrum in their car a while back.



Oh, crap, scrolled up and I see it's already been posted.

I think white knights are as pathetic as the next guy, but the post which that stupid graphic was responding to was not WKing at all. The guy said that the douche in the vid was obviously pushing all her buttons to elicit an overblown reaction that he could film and show to the world how annoying his wife was.

Both those people suck, the wife and the husband. She's disgustingly immature, but he doesn't come out much better. I think that was the point the alleged white knight was making, and I agree with it, and disagree that it's white knighting at all.

 

[RickNash]

That Alison Brie...

 

[Dr J]

Whenever I've heard an adult be described as acting like a child, I usually take it to mean they're being lazy or shirking their responsibilities.

But my girlfriend will sometimes actually act like a child. I love her "adult" self - she's educated, a teacher, and pretty switched on.

However, when she's really excited, nervous or sad she will kind of revert to a childlike personality. She puts on a baby voice, pouts, makes cutesy noises etc. If this was in context it would be OK, but sometimes it almost seems to happen uncontrollably. What's going on here? Some context - she's 27, has very protective parents and tends to struggle in situations where she has to act formally (outside of teaching). I love her but I'm having trouble dealing with this.

I briefly dated a girl like that. Likewise, she was very educated (now a physician) and had a very good personality otherwise. She had a child-like voice and did the whining and pouting. She even referred to father as "daddy," which I thought was super weird. I was able to deal with it short term because she was pretty hot, but luckily I was upfront about not wanting a serious relationship. I couldn't have dealt with that long term.

 

[The Taxman]

I love her butt, I'm having trouble dealing with this.

Fixed for you. Nothing to worry about TS

 

[Pecker123]

Whenever I've heard an adult be described as acting like a child, I usually take it to mean they're being lazy or shirking their responsibilities.

But my girlfriend will sometimes actually act like a child. I love her "adult" self - she's educated, a teacher, and pretty switched on.

However, when she's really excited, nervous or sad she will kind of revert to a childlike personality. She puts on a baby voice, pouts, makes cutesy noises etc. If this was in context it would be OK, but sometimes it almost seems to happen uncontrollably. What's going on here? Some context - she's 27, has very protective parents and tends to struggle in situations where she has to act formally (outside of teaching). I love her but I'm having trouble dealing with this.

Dont get her excited, make her nervous or sad?

Thats all I got.

 

[johnyboy]

Does she just do like baby talk or does she full out throw tantrums. My advise is just to be open with how you feel.

 

[Jermei]

Must be an A-cup.

 

[GearSolidMetal]

TS,

When your girlfriend starts acting like a child...

Spoiler

Start acting like a pedophile.

 

[bcordova]

Surely it's only in South Korea that she could find her... Seoul mate

 

[Da City of God]

Bro if that's the biggest issue that ain't shit, just deal with it and keep going. If she's worth it, don't let it ruin shit.

/thread

 

[Deleted member 245586]

My girlfriend does the baby voice to our dog. It's weird but I guess people do it. She also still calls her dad "daddy", which is also weird to me but whatever.

S, does Machida and the Gracie's

 

[Amerikuracana]

Just hump her and get over it.


Girls can get away with being weird, which now that hey are 51% of the work-force seems like a bit of a double standard. She's a teacher, sounds like overall she has it together, who cares.. These are the types that end up in relationships with young male students, btw.

 

[monkey king**]

Slap her on the ass and show her who's Daddy.

yeah, this might work

 

[HARRISON_3]

Ditch her, now. I mean literally now, things won't get better, only worse. Get her out of your life.

Yup. Stuff like this tends to get worse down the road.

 

[shockaholic12]

She needs to go see a shrink. This behavior more than likely can be treated in a few sessions. If she can't be bothered then dump her. Somewhere down the road when you need her to be solid she's just going to become a blabbering child.

 

[riitzni]

Send her to S.Korea or Japan so she can find her soul mate.

That's her indirect way of telling you she likes anal. Start giving it to her in the butt & it will be fine

Career option: Japanese porn.

Surely it's only in South Korea that she could find her... Seoul mate

This is relevant to Ravden's interests.

Lost hard. Thanks, assholes of Mayberry. You make me laugh.

Seriously though TS, this is some creepy shit. I've gone through a long, exhaustive search for appropriate times to baby talk, and here's my well informed list:

With actual infants
With pets and/or infant pets
With foreigners and/or infant foreigners

Someone reverting to it without meaning to or in times of high stress sounds insane/insanely creepy. What happens when she has kids? She'll be locked into that mode 24/7 and pretty soon you'll be changing her adult diapers as a form of foreplay.