"it builds integrity...that will take you much farther in life than wrestling OR BJJ"
That is so true.
I did 1 year of wrestling in my junior year in hs. Everyone on the team's been doing it
since they were 5. I signed up after watching UFC 1. During that time, I was taking TKD.
Wrestling is hard. Not just the physical aspects, but mental.
I'll be honest; I hated practice. It was hard to learn a new skill(grappling) and at the
same time go through 3hrs of killer cardio/strength conditioning.... and then do it for
5 days straight. I wanted to quit within the first month. My team kept me in check and
I stuck with it throughout the whole season. By the 3rd month, I started to get into the
flow.
In the end, I am so glad I had those guys on the team and kept me in check. The coach
used me as an example the following year. Apparently a few newbs tried out and started
dropping out as the season got started. He was pissed. He told the remaining team how
he respected me (heard this from the team). He said something along the lines: "No matter
how much he hated this shit, he didn't quit and stuck with it."
DO IT ONLY IF YOU PLAN TO FINISH THE SEASON.
Don't do it just to "try". Don't waste your
coach's time and loose the respect of your team.
DMcKayBJJ said:
This is a grappling forum, son. Nobody here is going to tell you to quit wrestling.
The guys in this forum who wrestled in HS will tell you to stick with it no matter what, because that's what THEY did. The guys who didn't wrestle in HS will tell you to stick with it, because that's what THEY wish they had done.
You say you'd rather do BJJ but can't afford $90 a month. So until you find out how to come up with $90 a month, cross that off your list of options.
My best advice is this: You tried out for wrestling for a reason. Only you know that reason. One workout on one day is usually not enough of a test to see if you really like something or not. Always remind yourself of the reason you tried out in the first place...especially when you're trying to make it through that 10th sprint at the next workout, let alone the 25th.
High school is the time to try out things and see what you like. You won't like everything, so don't feel bad if you try something and eventually decide you don't like it. Be proud of yourself for at least trying! A lot of people don't even have the guts to do THAT!
Make a deal with yourself and stick with it (it builds integrity...that will take you much farther in life than wrestling OR BJJ). For example, decide you'll quit on the THIRD really tough day, not the FIRST. It today was your FIRST really tough day, well then you've got 2 more to count before you decide that wrestling is really not for you. If you don't want to count today, fine...just don't change your mind about it later!
Good luck!
(now carry on, young grasshoppa...)