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I didn't really join this thread to have my character assassinated tbh I was just saying something that I know to be true. As you all asked so nicely I will regale you with the particulars of how I came upon this information, and I am sure it will delight some of you to have the fuel to fire your inspired bitterness toward me, however, for the purposes of the argument this story is 100% true so you can judge me as you wish.
I am in a band and we are based in the UK. We are by no means a famous band, but in our own genre, which is a very small scene in the UK, my band is one of the main support bands for all the famous bands in the genre, and we play gigs from arenas one night, next night a local bar. We all have full-time jobs and we are all skint. My friends are always nagging me to write a book about the incidents I have had with women, but to be perfectly candid both myself and my cousin were 'interfered with' as toddlers and I have always been a bit messed up about sex and relationships and struggled really hard to comprehend the two things as the same. This didn't make me cheat on women, Ive never actually done that, but it left me paranoid about being cheated on, and also when I was single I would literally sleep with any women that would let me, and I am ashamed of the way I used to be. I also was a borderline alcoholic and recreational user of drugs such as cocaine.
Anyway, to get to the tampon. One night I came of stage and a woman made a beeline for me and was being a real nuisance tbh. I was still suffering from the flu and didn't really even feel well enough to be out the house. She was begging and pleading with me to go outside and in her words f**k her, and even had her male friends egging me on to do it, it was getting embarrassing so I caved in and went outside with her. It was actually snowing and freezing cold so after kissing for a few minutes we went back inside and she dragged me into the ladies toilets. So we are there kissing in the cubicle and she starts stripping off in that n trying to get my penis out but it was that cold I actually had two pairs of jeans on lol, and I put my hands down her knickers and feel a piece of string. Then without anything getting any further or otherwise a bouncer comes in bangs on the door kicks us both, and also her previously unknown to me boyfriend out the venue. He didn't have any idea what she was up to. A bit embarrassing to be kicked out your own gig for a failed attempt at sex in the toilets but that is the end of it.
Next day at about 2pm I check my facebook and Ive got a message off the venue saying the police want to talk to me in connection with a rape. At this point I just thought they were trying to be dicks about what had happened but then the police rang our band manager and got my number off him. When I got the phone call I can tell you my heart dropped through my anus so fast it physically hurt when I thought I was gonna get accused of rape, and I told the police officer my account of the events pretty much as I have just given them to you, and then I asked if she was accusing me of rape and as it transpired she had later on that night had sex with someone else and was accusing him of rape and that she had done the same thing on three other blokes in the past 4 weeks and every time she had a tampon in and apparently according to the police officer its something serial rape accusers do. That is how I know.
The reason why I have perhaps given more background to this than may seem necessary, is that I won't people on here to understand that the types of women AND men, that go back to parties with drugs n drink in hotel rooms etc etc are not usually looking to form the kind of loving relationship as suggested on here, and often do messed up things for no logical reason. Now I am not suggested she was raped or she wasn't raped. The only thing I was challenging was the people saying that because she had a tampon in it was definitely rape.
I am in a band and we are based in the UK. We are by no means a famous band, but in our own genre, which is a very small scene in the UK, my band is one of the main support bands for all the famous bands in the genre, and we play gigs from arenas one night, next night a local bar. We all have full-time jobs and we are all skint. My friends are always nagging me to write a book about the incidents I have had with women, but to be perfectly candid both myself and my cousin were 'interfered with' as toddlers and I have always been a bit messed up about sex and relationships and struggled really hard to comprehend the two things as the same. This didn't make me cheat on women, Ive never actually done that, but it left me paranoid about being cheated on, and also when I was single I would literally sleep with any women that would let me, and I am ashamed of the way I used to be. I also was a borderline alcoholic and recreational user of drugs such as cocaine.
Anyway, to get to the tampon. One night I came of stage and a woman made a beeline for me and was being a real nuisance tbh. I was still suffering from the flu and didn't really even feel well enough to be out the house. She was begging and pleading with me to go outside and in her words f**k her, and even had her male friends egging me on to do it, it was getting embarrassing so I caved in and went outside with her. It was actually snowing and freezing cold so after kissing for a few minutes we went back inside and she dragged me into the ladies toilets. So we are there kissing in the cubicle and she starts stripping off in that n trying to get my penis out but it was that cold I actually had two pairs of jeans on lol, and I put my hands down her knickers and feel a piece of string. Then without anything getting any further or otherwise a bouncer comes in bangs on the door kicks us both, and also her previously unknown to me boyfriend out the venue. He didn't have any idea what she was up to. A bit embarrassing to be kicked out your own gig for a failed attempt at sex in the toilets but that is the end of it.
Next day at about 2pm I check my facebook and Ive got a message off the venue saying the police want to talk to me in connection with a rape. At this point I just thought they were trying to be dicks about what had happened but then the police rang our band manager and got my number off him. When I got the phone call I can tell you my heart dropped through my anus so fast it physically hurt when I thought I was gonna get accused of rape, and I told the police officer my account of the events pretty much as I have just given them to you, and then I asked if she was accusing me of rape and as it transpired she had later on that night had sex with someone else and was accusing him of rape and that she had done the same thing on three other blokes in the past 4 weeks and every time she had a tampon in and apparently according to the police officer its something serial rape accusers do. That is how I know.
The reason why I have perhaps given more background to this than may seem necessary, is that I won't people on here to understand that the types of women AND men, that go back to parties with drugs n drink in hotel rooms etc etc are not usually looking to form the kind of loving relationship as suggested on here, and often do messed up things for no logical reason. Now I am not suggested she was raped or she wasn't raped. The only thing I was challenging was the people saying that because she had a tampon in it was definitely rape.