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Essentially, what is "game"?

Game is whatever your sexual strategy is to get laid.

Every guy has game in one form or another. Even a guy who has only been with one woman his entire life and is married to her, had to use game to get her and keep her.
 
What op is describing is the opposite of being game. Its a tame, boring, castrated and regulated way of going to the other sex.
 
I hate this whole concept of "Game". And it's probably because 90% of the times I hear it, it's used in a negative context. Someones either talking about how someone doesn't have it, or talking about how someone else's "Game" is better than their own, and that's why they (subject of interest) were more successful in pulling women. To me, it's mainly used as a mechanism to create a barrier between oneself (or the subject) and the plausibility of having a sense of self worth.

From what I know, having game just means you associate with a lot of woman, you're confident, have very good charisma, and excellent social skills. You have the ability to charm your way into a desirable womans pants (presumably without emptying your bank account/showing high social status indicators), that most men would be unsuccessful at doing. As a result of that success, it results in the subject gaining confidence in himself (Let's be honest, most women don't need game), therefore creating to snowball effect in his overall sense of self as that sense of self will attract more woman, and the cycle continues. The problem is that your "Game" is not only defined by your success, but the status of which success you attain. It's why guys that date a lot of undesirable woman, or guys that aren't go getters as far as being on the dating scene (but don't necessarily lack the confidence/charisma/charm to get into a females pants) aren't seen as having game. It's a completely extrinsic mechanism of self value.
 
The term "game" was only coined because all the idiots and hucksters who previously talked about "pick-up artistry" started to feel self-conscious. See also: incels and MGTOW.
 
Game to me is the ability to exude influence. This goes for speaking to women all the way to holding in down in the board room.

While influence can run the gambit, I believe that is the general concept of what game actually is, because in theory whatever actions you're taking or words you're saying is to influence the woman to be interested in you.
 
What op is describing is the opposite of being game. Its a tame, boring, castrated and regulated way of going to the other sex.

Whatever man.

I, personally, can't f**king stand "goofy game".

Most men I see at parties/nights out are complete "dancing monkey mode", high fiving women like a f**king goofball ... I find it so cringeworthy...

No woman is ever gonna want to suck the dick of a goofball.

I like to maintain a masculine frame, be calm, charming, authentic and naturally funny. Nothing forced or out of character.
 
Whatever man.

I, personally, can't f**king stand "goofy game".

Most men I see at parties/nights out are complete "dancing monkey mode", high fiving women like a f**king goofball ... I find it so cringeworthy...

No woman is ever gonna want to suck the dick of a goofball.

I like to maintain a masculine frame, be calm, charming and naturally funny. Nothing forced or out of character.

so you go for the "silent and mysterious"?

yeah that always works well lol (end up looking like idiot in a corner)
 
so you go for the "silent and mysterious"?

yeah that always works well lol (end up looking like idiot in a corner)

Nah, I just be my authentic self. I don't tricks or trying to "entertain" the entire frickin room.

"Goofy game" gets reactions and looks flashy ... but you're just a goof
 
so you go for the "silent and mysterious"?

yeah that always works well lol (end up looking like idiot in a corner)

When I find myself around other "goofy" game guys, I sometimes unconsciously start doing goofy game, too. I feel like I need to shower afterwards. I feel like a bitch
 
Nah, I just be my authentic self. I don't tricks or trying to "entertain" the entire frickin room.

"Goofy game" gets reactions and looks flashy ... but you're just a goof


No need to be goofy, just go talk to the girls you want, be witty, dont give a fuck about the 'first the number then the coffee then the dinner...' stuff and go with the flow. No rules in this.
 
Basically, if you loved season 8 of Game of Thrones, you will die a virgin, because you are a dumbshit nerd. That’s the worst possible combination.

It also means you got zero game.
 
No need to be goofy, just go talk to the girls you want, be witty, dont give a fuck about the 'first the number then the coffee then the dinner...' stuff and go with the flow. No rules in this.

Well ... you still have to have the awareness to at at least ask for her number before you say goodbye ... have the logistical awareness of taking it from A to B.

There are logistics that need to be considered, as well as being natural, building a little rapport, connecting.

It's a balance.
 
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Basically, if you loved season 8 of Game of Thrones, you will die a virgin, because you are a dumbshit nerd. That’s the worst possible combination.

It also means you got zero game.

Read the new GoT thread.

I agree with you now, GoT has become f**king shit, from a story-telling point of view at least.
 
only dumb hoes fall for game. the term game most likely came from ghetto black project neighborhoods where thugs pick up hoes and call it game. real women know what they want BUT most of the times we have to initiate because it's our job as men. of course u gotta be attractive to females . u have to work out, eat healthy, smell good, dress good, be well spoken, have nice hair,and try not to be a doormat. be charismatic but don't do all the work, let them meet you half way. in other words let them EARN YOUR RESPECT. that way they'll like you more.
 
only dumb hoes fall for game. the term game most likely came from ghetto black project neighborhoods where thugs pick up hoes and call it game. real women know what they want BUT most of the times we have to initiate because it's our job as men. of course u gotta be attractive to females . u have to work out, eat healthy, smell good, dress good, be well spoken, have nice hair,and try not to be a doormat. be charismatic but don't do all the work, let them meet you half way. in other words let them EARN YOUR RESPECT. that way they'll like you more.

Disagree.

I have had a few occasions where I have had dates with women. These women were very well to do and had high interest in me, messaging me everyday, telling me they were looking forward to meeting me, buying me gifts etc.

As soon as I told them I liked them and started talking about a relationship, 2nd and 3rd dates, being open and honest with my intent etc .... the attraction was dead. They deleted and blocked my number and I never heard from them again.

This was bad "game" on my part. But, don't pretend that game doesn't exist, because it do.
 
Disagree.

I have had a few occasions where I have had dates with women. These women were very well to do and had high interest in me, messaging me everyday, telling me they were looking forward to meeting me, buying me gifts etc.

As soon as I told them I liked them and started talking about a relationship, 2nd and 3rd dates, being open and honest with my intent etc .... the attraction was dead. They deleted and blocked my number and I never heard from them again.

This was bad "game" on my part. But, don't pretend that game doesn't exist, because it do.
alot of things could have happened to why they don't like you bro. how could "game" have helped you? do you think talking like a pimp rapper or rockstar and faking the funk would have helped you? what's your definition of game? don't feel too bad about yourself, u didn't anything wrong and you deserve someone who'll give you that attention and respect the same way u give it to them. fuck them. move on. i think u fucked up because u didn't get physical with them. most girls won't EVER initiate physical contact even if they really want it. they probably took it as a turnoff and ditched you. that's my opinion. did you even try to make a move or just talk? never tell a girl you like them, just go for the kill and get physical. give them that serious seductive look ,grab their hand gently and kiss it and hold onto it. do i have to tell you everything? learn to decode the "unspoken language" when it comes to females. fuck what comes out of their mouth and pay attention to their body language and mood then react to them. trust your judgement and if they see it as being too aggressive on your part, apologize like a gentleman and give em the cold shoulder. girls like that shit because their minds are all over the place and not stable like men. in time she will return the favor and from nowhere ,grab you and hold onto to you NOW THAT SHE KNOWS ITS SAFE since u did it to her. dont even talk about relationships until u fuck them a few times. even then dont bring it up because she'll like you more and she'll be the one to bring it up since the balls now on your court, playah.
 
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alot of things could have happened to why they don't like you bro. how could "game" have helped you? do you think talking like a pimp rapper or rockstar and faking the funk would have helped you? what's your definition of game? don't feel too bad about yourself, u didn't anything wrong and you deserve someone who'll give that attention and respect. fuck them. move on.

I should have slowed it down, just enjoyed my time with them and let them bring it up
 
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