Essentially, what is "game"?

[Deleted member 457759]

Hitting on a girl without her knowing.

 

[Psychedelic]

You just have a inferiority complex,is all. However,it doesnt have to last. You can switch characters at a drop of a hat,if you got the stones to do it.

Why the fuck do you keep following me from thread to thread ?

If you want my attention, then at least behave and be respectful.

 

[HHJ]

Look at that style

He’s got something to say. An interesting POV. Something different. That is attractive

of course he got something to say,hes a bad motherfucker.

But im just saying he aint exactly a good looking guy at all,but he was with Bridget Bardot in her prime. Its based on GAME,not looks.

 

[Bubzeh]

Edge. Uniqueness. Forwardness. Confident but not too much / too cocky.

That being said I don't punch and never have. Strictly 8.5's and below for me. Would fall flat on my face trying to ask a 9 out I'm sure.

If all else fails, spot the ones with low self esteem and use that as an advantage. You'll never get a rejection.

 

[Goonerview]

Edge. Uniqueness. Forwardness. Confident but not too much / too cocky.

That being said I don't punch and never have. Strictly 8.5's and below for me. Would fall flat on my face trying to ask a 9 out I'm sure.

If all else fails, spot the ones with low self esteem and use that as an advantage. You'll never get a rejection.

Again, this thread is referring more towards the dyanamics of the relationship.

Assuming, looks, charm etc is a given, you still need "game". I.e. Not being too eager, not being too needy, not being too open with your feelings too soon.

At the same time, you don't want to be too cold and ignore the woman.

 

[-Magua-]

I'm talking mainly about the dynamics of the relationship.

You can be charming, good looking, rich, high status etc. etc. ... but if you over-compliment a girl, message her too much or tell her you like her, too soon ... your ass is done.

It’s true.
Same thing a woman loses her hotness a bit when she does the same.

 

[Clear Winner]

If you do it too soon, it would.

How soon? When you're pulling out her chair?

If you say "I like you and I'd like to see you again" at the end of the meal on the first date, you'll get a 2nd if they're into you.

 

[Thai Otoshi]

If you have to ask what it is or overthink about the minutiae of what it involves, you haven't got it and never will.

So on the money.

 

[Goonerview]

It’s true.
Same thing a woman loses her hotness a bit when she does the same.

Personally, I don't mind a girl being clingy/needy. Especially if I'm into them. I find it quite cute.

 

[Goonerview]

How soon? When you're pulling out her chair?

If you say "I like you and I'd like to see you again" at the end of the meal on the first date, you'll get a 2nd if they're into you.

There's no real "time", it's not a science. But, if you tell her you like her, before she has decided that she likes you, you're pretty much done.

 

[Crocop42]

When it comes to "game" its not about those who have it, the qualities, or what it takes to achieve it. Nobody tries to have "game".

Its more about those who dont have it. Its just the way it is.

I gotta shower now, ive used the term "game" twice. I keep smelling axe body spray.

 

[Mr Mojo Lane]

Bullshit. Bull fuckin shit.

Ugly ass dudes can get hot chicks.

Serge gainsborough aint no good looking dude,but that motherfucker had GAME.

In today's 80/20 dating world?

With the amount of attention women get w/ social media?

It doesn't happen as much as it used to

 

[Clear Winner]

There's no real "time", it's not a science. But, if you tell her you like her, before she has decided that she likes you, you're pretty much done.

But, if you're that Brad Pitt type (which is what you were initially talking about), a woman (people in general, TBH) will pretty much decide instantly if they're attracted to you. After that, it's like what Chris Rock says "Man, I hope he doesn't say something stupid".

 

[Goonerview]

How soon? When you're pulling out her chair?

If you say "I like you and I'd like to see you again" at the end of the meal on the first date, you'll get a 2nd if they're into you.

I've had a few occasions where I have gone on a date with a girl, before the date, she was sending me messages with hearts on them, saying stuff like "I'm looking forward to seeing you!" Etc. the girl was even 20 minutes early, sending me messages where to exactly meet her etc. she bought a gift for me ... after a few drinks, I tell her I like her ...

She said she just wanted to be friends and basically stopped replying to my messages ... lol

I've had this happen a few times ... this was bad game, because there was no mystery any more, no anxiety.

A lot of what constitutes "Sexual tension" is essentially the girl not knowing where she stands with you. Whether you like her or not.

 

[Goonerview]

But, if you're that Brad Pitt type (which is what you were initially talking about), a woman (people in general, TBH) will pretty much decide instantly if they're attracted to you. After that, it's like what Chris Rock says "Man, I hope he doesn't say something stupid".

This is exactly my point. Assuming looks and charm are a given. "Game" in terms of the relationship dynamic is very important not to f**k up.

Don't tell a girl you like her, don't over-compliment her, don't blow her phone up, etc.

 

[ithinktheymad]

Feeding women validation without them ever getting full. Like junk food. BTW I could tell you had no game from your previous threads but this actually made me cringe!

 

[Goonerview]

Feeding women validation without them ever getting full. Like junk food. BTW I could tell you had no game from your previous threads but this actually made me cringe!

I know I have had very bad game. But, there have been stages of my life, where my "game" was effortless and I was unconsciously very good with women.

This thread is essentially to break down what exactly is "game".

What is "game" at its fundamental core? Once looks and charm have been established:

1. Woman not knowing exactly where she stands with you. Whether you like her or not. THIS is f**king key.

2. Have a couple of comfort building dates. But don't give any/little validation. No cutesy ass messages after the date, either. Be chatty, cool, calm, relaxed.

3. Small steps until she's back in your apartment and you are 100% certain that she likes you. Then watch a movie, make a move then.

 

[Goonerview]

When it comes to "game" its not about those who have it, the qualities, or what it takes to achieve it. Nobody tries to have "game".

Its more about those who dont have it. Its just the way it is.

I gotta shower now, ive used the term "game" twice. I keep smelling axe body spray.

"Game" is a term that gets confused a lot.

What I am referring to as "game" is the dynamics of the interaction between you and the girl.

Assuming you have the good looks and charm and she's interested in you. If you have bad game I.e. Sending her too many messages, over-complimenting her, telling her you like her too soon ... you're f**ked.

So, even with the good looks, you need to reign in your emotions and be calm, cool and collected. Or she will lose interest in you so f**king quickly.

 

[Clear Winner]

I've had a few occasions where I have gone on a date with a girl, before the date, she was sending me messages with hearts on them, saying stuff like "I'm looking forward to seeing you!" Etc. the girl was even 20 minutes early, sending me messages where to exactly meet her etc. she bought a gift for me ... after a few drinks, I tell her I like her ...

She said she just wanted to be friends and basically stopped replying to my messages ... lol

I've had this happen a few times ... this was bad game, because there was no mystery any more, no anxiety.

A lot of what constitutes "Sexual tension" is essentially the girl not knowing where she stands with you.

IMO, she's either a simpleton or you said something else on the date that turned her off. Sure you didn't go on a right wing rant? Say something that the average person would think was off?

 

[Goonerview]

Definitely don;t blow her phone up because you'll look like a stalker, but I know a guy who's marrie


IMO, she's either a simpleton or you said something else on the date that turned her off. Sure you didn't go on a right wing rant? Say something that the average person would think was off?

She could well be a simpleton or a lesbian ... that's what I was telling myself soon after that date anyway.

But, tbh, I should have played that a lot more cool.