Do you think his woman cheated on him?

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"I’ve known my (28M) wife (28F) for 10 years, dated since 2015 and married for 3 years with no kids.
This past weekend we went to her friends wedding in another state. She was apart of the ceremony and flew in a couple days early to partake in the bridal events/rehearsal. She told me how they had planned to go to the club on Friday night with the bridesmaids/groomsmen - I couldn’t get the day off so I flew in on Saturday. Prior to her going to the club that night she called me saying she was scared to go back to the hotel from the club by herself and that she doesn’t think she should go. I encouraged her to as I didn’t want her to miss a memorable night with her friends. She decided to go and shared her Uber ride locations with me for precaution.

Fast forward later that night, she texts me saying she’s a bit tipsy and that she was trying to leave the club. At 3AM (I’m asleep) she texts me that one of the groomsmen, whom I don’t know, is going to bring her back. I wake up the next day for my 11AM flight - text her to ask what happened, she didn’t text back until 1 PM.

When we talked about it she told me she wanted to leave the club so one of the groomsmen she had been talking to that night offered to bring her back (3AM). They get back to the hotel and she feels bad for making him do all that so she offered him some water so they both go up to her room.. gave him water and ended up talking for two hours. She ordered him a Lyft home for bringing her back. She always goes to bed early - they were talking until 5 AM….
She felt bad about what happened and knew that it looked inappropriate but assured me that nothing sexual happened and that they just talked platonically.

Now I have all these random scenarios running through my head, wondering wtf actually happened. But what bothers me the most is that she’s overprotective and can be jealous of other females friendships that I have. If i ever brought a girl to my hotel room from 3-5AM, she would blow up and possibly not talk to me for a while. I made it a point not to overreact during the weekend just so she can enjoy the wedding.

I feel cheated and betrayed.. but not sure if I’m overreacting. Part of me feels like she’s leaving out certain details to make it seem like it was innocent but that could also be my mind racing. I also come to find out on my own that she’s friends with this dude on Instagram.
I don’t know if I’m overthinking or this is actually fucked up … i feel like this is the last straw but i really do love her but I feel like she’s crossed a boundary that no wife or husband should do … I don’t know what to do here.

This is my first time posting on Reddit so I greatly appreciate your advice."

You decide!
 
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Barring some anamoly, and assuming the narrative he posted is accurate, of course she did.

Drunk people on vacation, who don't know each other, and have been clubbing all night, don't just go talk for hours in each other's hotel rooms.

IMO, she's doing damage control. She knows the story will get out, so she's getting ahead of it, by creating an alternate version of what really happened, before somebody tells her husband his wife is a ho, and she has no choice but to own her mistake.
 
He says "this is the last straw" which indicates there have been other sketchy incidents?

I know this is sherdog, with a bunch of goofballs that love to post "he went DEEP", but to be serious, it depends on their relationship. Certainly bringing some guy back into your room from the club at 3am while tipsy is not a good look and I don't blame the guy for arriving at those conclusions.
Guys and girls don't just "talk" for 2 hours alone while drinking. They would need to have a serious talk and I think depending on that outcome, it may be wise to get out.
 
Of course they did it. If they were just talking she probably would’ve responded to the fools texts. Only way that is understandable despite her being admittedly awake is that she was getting smeshed

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Gentan said:
He says "this is the last straw" which indicates there have been other sketchy incidents?

I know this is sherdog, with a bunch of goofballs that love to post "he went DEEP", but to be serious, it depends on their relationship. Certainly bringing some guy back into your room from the club at 3am while tipsy is not a good look and I don't blame the guy for arriving at those conclusions.
Guys and girls don't just "talk" for 2 hours alone while drinking. They would need to have a serious talk and I think depending on that outcome, it may be wise to get out.
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He went deep is probably a factual statement, though
 
JudoThrowFiasco said:
Obviously. The only reason she came up with the convoluted story was because there were witnesses. Otherwise why not go back back with a bridesmaid?
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Yup people saw them leave together or saw them at the hotel together. Otherwise she would never have told him there was a guy any where near her
 
Thats nice of the groomsman shes been drinking with and partying with all day and night to escort her home. Thats nice of her to offer this kind gentleman water and an innocent chat session afterwards. The nerve of that husband thinking innapropriate things were happening. Not having trust for his wife. What an ass.

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Fedorgasm said:
Yup people saw them leave together or saw them at the hotel together. Otherwise she would never have told him there was a guy any where near her
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Yep

Poor bastard. Imagine taking a flight to attend a party where one of the main guys is drinking open bar and feasting on prime after banging your wife all night. That kid is going to be eating single serving frozen dinners for the rest of his life hating the world.
 
Never leave your women on their own at a nightclub, for fucks sake.

Of course the guy smashed.
 
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"She doesn't belong to her husband, it's his fault she felt the need to sleep with another man"
 
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