Relationship Do you know anyone who left their spouse for their (mistress) affair partner and now they are happy?

Yes. A good friend of mine left his wife for another woman and have been happily married for some time now. Even the vows of marriage aren't strong enough to stay in a toxic relationship.
 
My sister in law (wife's sister).

She was in a marriage that was failed from the start. Then she had an affair with an older divorced coworker who was also our teacher in med school. She divorced and now they're happy together with two kids and are partners in a private clinic.
 
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Oceanmachine said:
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My nephew was in love with a woman who was living and in a relationship with a guy they worked with. 12 years or so later she and my nephew are happily married with 2 kids and couldn't be happier. They're a lovely family.

My dad had a hideous affair with my evil step mother who I threw eggs at and wanted nothing to do with 30 years ago. They're still together.
 
fingercuffs said:
My nephew was in love with a woman who was living and in a relationship with a guy they worked with. 12 years or so later she and my nephew are happily married with 2 kids and couldn't be happier. They're a lovely family.

My dad had a hideous affair with my evil step mother who I threw eggs at and wanted nothing to do with 30 years ago. They're still together.
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How did your fathers affair effect you? I read about kids having dreams of love shattered by a parents infidelity let alone divorce
 
It may work in some cases, but personally I wouldn’t date a woman who is willing to leave her husband for me. If she’s willing to do that to him, she’ll probably do it again at some point.
 
Oceanmachine said:
How did your fathers affair effect you? I read about kids having dreams of love shattered by a parents infidelity let alone divorce
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He blamed the whole thing on me when I was actually a pretty good kid, pinned me up against the wall by my throat then called child services to get me taken away. All I did was bunk off school, lol. He locked all the doors, when my mum was "WTF are you doing?!" I disappeared out of a window to my boyfriend's for the night. I was 15 I think, right in the middle of my mock exams which obviously fucked me up grades wise, I ended up in hospital because my periods went crazy due to stress. Like to the point of getting light headed every time I stood up I'd lost so much blood.
To say I didn't have daddy issues...
He doesn't deserve me being upset, every friend I've known who I've spoken to says he doesn't deserve me as a daughter and when I emailed him that I had cancer as my mum was dying of it he wasn't interested.

We, as human beings, don't know how strong we are till faced with things like this. Still around, still doing okay.
 
Alphaboy said:
Mary Kay LeTourneau left her family for an underaged boy and allegedly lived happily ever after until she died.
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I remember vaguely hearing about this years ago. I just read her Wikipedia page and wow. I feel bad for the dude, he never had any concept of what a normal relationship is like and probably is unsure if he ever loved her in the first place or if he was essentially just tricked by puberty and power dynamics into thinking he loved her. I’m pretty sure his kids are only like 12 years younger than him
 
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Ottawaguy said:
It may work in some cases, but personally I wouldn’t date a woman who is willing to leave her husband for me. If she’s willing to do that to him, she’ll probably do it again at some point.
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Logical train of thought. I think every homewrecker thinks they have the magic d!ck/pvssy that'll settle the person down.

Diogenes of Sinope said:
I remember vaguely hearing about this year’s ago, just read her Wikipedia page and wow. I feel bad for the dude, he never had any concept of what a normal relationship is like and probably is unsure if he ever loved her in the first place or if he was essentially just tricked by puberty and power dynamics into thinking he loved her. I’m pretty sure his kids are only like 12 years younger than him
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Yea, he was groomed and it may have fucked him up. The "mAn tHaT's So HoT, lUcKy cHiLd" douchebros don't really think about that.
 
fingercuffs said:
He blamed the whole thing on me when I was actually a pretty good kid, pinned me up against the wall by my throat then called child services to get me taken away. All I did was bunk off school, lol. He locked all the doors, when my mum was "WTF are you doing?!" I disappeared out of a window to my boyfriend's for the night. I was 15 I think, right in the middle of my mock exams which obviously fucked me up grades wise, I ended up in hospital because my periods went crazy due to stress. Like to the point of getting light headed every time I stood up I'd lost so much blood.
To say I didn't have daddy issues...
He doesn't deserve me being upset, every friend I've known who I've spoken to says he doesn't deserve me as a daughter and when I emailed him that I had cancer as my mum was dying of it he wasn't interested.

We, as human beings, don't know how strong we are till faced with things like this. Still around, still doing okay.
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So sad. I dont know how men like that reproduce it is good you exist obviously but I legit dont get how guys like that also behave that way to their own family. On flip side there are awkward but good guys who largely are inexperiencrd but would make a woman happier but remain incel. It is like a tragic fact of life. The story repeats itself so often women being messed up by men
 
Alphaboy said:
Yea, he was groomed and it may have fucked him up. The "mAn tHaT's So HoT, lUcKy cHiLd" douchebros don't really think about that.
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Mmm that grooming must have been pretty hot
 
Alphaboy said:
Mary Kay LeTourneau left her family for an underaged boy and allegedly lived happily ever after until she died.
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Not exactly, she married him when she got out but apparently according to wiki they separated in 2019, a year before her death in 2020. And yet she still left everything to him it seems.
 
fingercuffs said:
He blamed the whole thing on me when I was actually a pretty good kid, pinned me up against the wall by my throat then called child services to get me taken away. All I did was bunk off school, lol. He locked all the doors, when my mum was "WTF are you doing?!" I disappeared out of a window to my boyfriend's for the night. I was 15 I think, right in the middle of my mock exams which obviously fucked me up grades wise, I ended up in hospital because my periods went crazy due to stress. Like to the point of getting light headed every time I stood up I'd lost so much blood.
To say I didn't have daddy issues...
He doesn't deserve me being upset, every friend I've known who I've spoken to says he doesn't deserve me as a daughter and when I emailed him that I had cancer as my mum was dying of it he wasn't interested.

We, as human beings, don't know how strong we are till faced with things like this. Still around, still doing okay.
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*hugs*


Wouldn't piss on your father if he was on fire and I was about to wet myself though.
 
I was technically still with my long-term girlfriend/mother of my two oldest children, Donna when I met my first wife, Vicki. But the relationship had been rocky for years & the only reason we lived together was for the kids. But when I met Vicki I didn't carry on an affair with her. As soon as I realized that I had feelings for Vicki I sat Donna down & admitted to it right away & broke off my relationship with her. And I wound up moving out a couple of days later. Of course, Donna wasn't too happy about it at the time & I had a rough time no longer living with my kids on a full-time basis but everyone adjusted to things eventually.

My marriage to Vicki? It lasted for several years & we had a daughter together but we finally realized after about a decade that we didn't belong together as a couple so we split up & divorced. These days, Donna & I aren't in touch much now that our kids are grown but we get along fine when we do run into one another.

As for Vicki, we're actually good friends these days. She & Jana actually got along great & became friends while spending time together while with our daughter, Autumn. So, she was crushed when Jana passed back in March. In fact, Vicki & her husband actually own the house that I'm staying in now while I search for a new place of my own.
 
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