Just curious, anyone else here train BJJ because they enjoy beating people up? I know it's a martial art and all, respect your opponents and whatnot, but I find I enjoy grappling because it's fun when you can beat on people and kick their ass.
Also, anyone here hate it when people don't want to spar 100%? I'm used to hard sparring from training at an MMA club, and I figure that if you want to just flow roll and work technique you better have an injury that's keeping you from real sparring.
if youre for real then i'd say so what, go for it.
thats not really how i train to be honest but you got a good attitude kinda.
youre not trying to hurt anyone.
youre giving all your effort.
youre not enabling others to slack.
but, even if youre not trying to hurt someone, thats not to say you wont. if youre a white belt like me, you should be more worried about what youre doing, rather than how hard youre doing it.
i personally try to use as little force as possible, if he isnt giving much force back, why would i waste my (very precious) energy lol
also if you slam some guys arm down to do an americana from side control for example, that could injure them. they might not even realise until later.
i dont mind 'losing'. i always encourage my team mates to go as hard as they like on me because i trust them. and there are some people that are worried about hurting me so i remind them that look, if it hurts im just gonna tap man its cool.
if someone is pushing really hard to force something then ill try to push back to minimise it until i try to do the next thing.
then again, you have to respect your training partners and if they want to roll a certain way, you should do it. they dont have to justify themselves to you.