Very painful to read.....
And though I'm still speculating on the meaning of eff def , some good points were brought up.
I definitely respect a grappler with good sub defense. But grappling is no different than standup fighting in this regard. Everyone takes the skills they've learned and apply them according to their abilities/attributes.
Like Liddell has made a career out counterpunching and getting the KO, whereas Anderson Silva has adopted a very accurate, aggressive striking style which is effective in its own way.
Grappling is no different. I applaud anyone who who has mastered any aspect of grappling and adapted it to suit their strengths. There are a couple members of my gym with phenominal sub defense - and they are tough to roll with because they can shut you down until you get frustrated or slip-up, and end up getting caught.