Do men go along with having kids just to see how it plays out?

THEfightsAREfixed said:
i think its reasonable i can digitally transfer my consciousness to an even more superior clone of my myself in my lifetime so having kids doesnt have the same appeal it used to
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I don't think consciousness transfer will ever be possible.

I think they'll be able to take a copy of your brain and put it in a new body, but I think it will be more like a clone and your "sense of conciousness" would be lost.
 
cmw43 said:
I don't think consciousness transfer will ever be possible.

I think they'll be able to take a copy of your brain and put it in a new body, but I think it will be more like a clone and your "sense of conciousness" would be lost.
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ye of little faith
 
I feel like you sacrifice the relationship if you decide to have a kid.
 
Can't see myself becoming a parent, or maybe atleast not in my stupid country.
 
Romulas said:
My wife convinced me and now having two children brings me more joy than all the other cool things I do and have.

Your older years are boring if you don't have children and grandchildren. I feel really bad for people who don't have kids.
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Please don't feel bad for me, my life is awesome. Having kids isn't for everyone.
 
Felt, then fulfilled, that logical AND bio-logical need to see that my name carries on.

Now raising Cinnamon, Pammy, and Alexa's 11 kids, each one with an unknown daddy. :(
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Took my daughters many times to be on the Maury show...

never had a single episode include "You Are The Father !"

{<BJPeen}
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wlu.29 said:
My longest friend and his wife are having their first kid at 45

They met during the pandemic​

I'm happy for them, hoping everything works out.
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Thet raht thar cudd beez a ultrament eddzampul fer WCGW. <mma4>​
 
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Intermission said:
Theres no biological clock for men, so is it fair to say men have kids just to get the full experience of life?

Or are they forced to?

What is the true reason?
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I was always like a big kid anyway so transitioning to having kids... playing with water guns, sword fighting, camping and hiking in the woods on adventures like we are fighting dinosaurs or the villian of the day... catching snakes, turtles, lizards etc. I was built for that life. It really boils down to your personality. If you naturally are a giver then its much easier. But you are given a clean slate in which to give them experiences maybe you never had growing up. Fill their memories with all the love and things you do together. You get so many first experiences. I taught my two oldest to swim. To see the looks on their faces... There is little better in this life imo.
 
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There’s definitely a biological clock for men. We just have more time on it


mid 40s + though? High risk of autism and all types of shit
 
Cajun said:
It really boils down to your personality. If you naturally are a giver then its much easier.
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I dont know what the hell I am (besides gay according to sherdog). Ive always felt that Im an observer rather than a partcipator of this damn life. Experienced incredible loneliness and melacholy when i left social gatherings with friends, even my best friends. I made them laugh really hard and enjoyed being with them, but still empty inside. Its like im a visitor and you guys live here. "Here" being earth,
 
Intermission said:
I dont know what the hell I am (besides gay according to sherdog). Ive always felt that Im an observer rather than a partcipator of this damn life. Experienced incredible loneliness and melacholy when i left social gatherings with friends, even my best friends. I made them laugh really hard and enjoyed being with them, but still empty inside. Its like Im a visitor and you guys live here. "Here" being earth,
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Sounds like clinical depression or similar. I know that's overused but it does happen. The thing about kids at least in their young years is that they always want to be with you. Even when I go into a different room they always find me. There's a closeness that you can't find with adults in children. It's not a reason to have children and it sounds like you should probably take a look at some antidepressants.

The reason I say this, is that when I was young I broke my nose twice and ended up with petit mal seizures. I would stare off into space kind of like people doing the movies except that would be no thoughts or anything and people would have to kind of bump me to come back to reality. I finally got diagnosed after a bad car wreck and having a seizure in the car. But when I got diagnosed the funny thing was is I thought everybody was like that. I think that's the point I'm trying to make is things feel normal because you felt them so long but they may not be. Whatever happens... cheers bud.
 
nonoob said:
Felt, then fulfilled, that logical AND bio-logical need to see that my name carries on.

Now raising Cinnamon, Pammy, and Alexa's 11 kids, each one with an unknown daddy. :(
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Took my daughters many times to be on the Maury show...

never had a single episode include "You Are The Father !"

{<BJPeen}




Thet raht thar cudd beez a ultrament eddzampul fer WCGW. <mma4>​
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English please
 
Sometime I wonder what the world population would be, and what the rate of marriage would be, if creampies sucked physically for men
 
Cajun said:
Sounds like clinical depression or similar. I know that's overused but it does happen. The thing about kids at least in their young years is that they always want to be with you. Even when I go into a different room they always find me. There's a closeness that you can't find with adults in children. It's not a reason to have children and it sounds like you should probably take a look at some antidepressants.

The reason I say this, is that when I was young I broke my nose twice and ended up with petit mal seizures. I would stare off into space kind of like people doing the movies except that would be no thoughts or anything and people would have to kind of bump me to come back to reality. I finally got diagnosed after a bad car wreck and having a seizure in the car. But when I got diagnosed the funny thing was is I thought everybody was like that. I think that's the point I'm trying to make is things feel normal because you felt them so long but they may not be. Whatever happens... cheers bud.'
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The sadness part I think was a delayed age crisis.

I never felt out of my own body. More that I didnt have anyone that I connected with and I was just waiting for something that never happened. Now as a fully grown adult Ive had disasters where I get entangled with people who are already well taken care of, so to speak.

People think I troll but everything Ive written has been true. Im late to this and just get constantly burned by people my age who are already in a relationship and cheating on the side. And Im third in line...

Its like all the seats of the bus are taken. Im too late in the game..

My thinking was that I can snatch someone where the chemistry is really strong. But I cant in 3 months overcome years of loyalties.

I almost did with my soulmate girl. She deleted her facebook pictures and was completely floored by me, but still let go of me at the end of the day.
 
There is somewhat of a biological clock for men. The risk of complications rises notably after men turn 45 and by 65 almost all men are infertile.
 
nonoob said:
Felt, then fulfilled, that logical AND bio-logical need to see that my name carries on.

Now raising Cinnamon, Pammy, and Alexa's 11 kids, each one with an unknown daddy. :(
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Took my daughters many times to be on the Maury show...

never had a single episode include "You Are The Father !"

{<BJPeen}




Thet raht thar cudd beez a ultrament eddzampul fer WCGW. <mma4>​
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Mi feel yuh fam 💯👍🏽

Keep yuh head up tho king evrting gwan be irie 👌🏻🔮

🫵🏿👑
 
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