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People are placing way too much emphasis in tapping others in training. Really, that means nothing: there are far too many variables involved in class, most of which have been mentioned (they were taking it easy, they were working on adding a new technique to their game, they were trying to work you through a move, they've just come back from injury so tapped to stop their bust elbow getting fucked up again, they want to work a specific position, etc).
Training in class is not about 'winning' or 'losing', its about learning. If you tap someone else, or you get tapped, who cares? Save the win/lose mentality for competition (where you know your opponent is going all out to stop you getting anything), not your training partners (who are trying to help you get better: hopefully you're doing the same for them).
I'm always linking to this thread, but it bears repeating:
Training in class is not about 'winning' or 'losing', its about learning. If you tap someone else, or you get tapped, who cares? Save the win/lose mentality for competition (where you know your opponent is going all out to stop you getting anything), not your training partners (who are trying to help you get better: hopefully you're doing the same for them).
I'm always linking to this thread, but it bears repeating:
NSLightsOut said:You see, I am a great believer in the article of BJJ etiquette that talking about the people you've submitted in training is a no-no. Anything can happen in training, especially when it's used as it is intended: As a laboratory for experimentation as opposed to a venue for competition. I've been swept, reversed and submitted in training doing some new things, and the same has happened to my training partners. Big Fucking Deal. [...]
The second event that influenced this was a talk I had at a training partner's farewell party, where we were discussing if anyone had recently submitted one of the higher belts who is notoriously hard to submit. I had done so in the past, with something I'd consider fairly ugly and sloppy, but never repeated the performance. I was almost ashamed to bring it up. It just seemed like a dick thing to do, as it was done in training, using a move illegal under CBJJ rules, using mainly muscle and speed to set it up and crank it.
Later, when the alcohol had worked its way out of my system, I realized that it was, in fact, a dick move. I mean, this was a singular event that had happened years in the past, basically executed out of sheer fear of losing that only tapped the guy out because he was afraid of injury. How am I supposed to measure my performance by that?