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[ThaiSexPills]

Destination weddings are so selfish and stupid. I was the best man in one and barely anybody was there because were 23-25 at the time and most didn’t have 3k+ and over a full week off to spare.

Disneyland is especially bad because it’s a niche thing for weird ass Disney adults. Have a normal wedding then go on the honeymoon you stupid rwords

 

[StonedLemur]

I gotta vent here Sherbros, also to see if I am being the Ahole. Sister-in-law went from planning a low-key wedding (her second) with a guy shes already had a baby with to randomly making it a Disney World destination wedding. Not only that, she picked the dates already for next year right during the last month of the school year. I have three school aged children, not talking grade school either, middle and high-school. Now she is starting to get salty we might not come because I can't commit to something during that time of the year. Frankly she is pissing me off.

Question is, am I over-reacting or is she being a unreasonable bride here. As it is now, looks like my wife might have to go down there, spend $2 grand on a hotel room she only uses for 3 days then come back without ever stepping foot in Disney. If I am able to bring my kids down there it'll be the same deal, 3 days, no actual Disney (maybe a half day). I am not doing that to my kids, if she had planned it just one month later I woulda gone all in. Discuss.

You're being a good parent, and she's being an entitled little brat....no disrespect sir.

Keep doing the right thing.

 

[Osculater]

Why she tripping when she can stream the wedding to everyone to see

 

[moreorless87]

I'm guessing she's probably picked though dates exactly because their pre school holidays? probably makes the hotels significantly cheaper and generally less crowded?

 

[jeff7b9]

Nah, you're not over-reacting. Destination weddings suck. My buddy got married in Florida and I paid $900 to fly out there from California (to be one of the best men), only to be picked up by him at the airport where he tells me she cheated on him and he cheated on her and basically they hate each other.

 

[listrahtes]

A wedding invitation to disney world is like the maximum prison sentence for me. That would be like having a birthday party in FSB torture chambers with Grigor the fingerbreaker as host.

The date is quite possible to save you all a lot of money compared to regular holiday season.

 

[Pizza Werewolf]

Don't even go , just send your kids.

 

[CrazyN8]

Just an update, my wife got fed up with her demands and told her no one on our family is attending. She got salty and gaslight the hell out of my wife, done deal, I hope she enjoys her wedding but I'm honestly relieved as she's a fucking mental drain.

 

[TankAbbott4Eva]

A destination wedding is put on by selfish cunts

 

[JudoThrowFiasco]

I mean from their side...destination weddings really cut down on the people you don't want have at your wedding but are obligated to invite. On the otherside it's a predetermined vacation for you and that usually sucks. I don't mind them when I enjoy the couple and a bunch of my friends are going. I hate them when the opposite is true.

I had a nightmare one this past summer. Didn't like the couple, destination or most of the people attending (wife is close friends with the bride). The kicker was they also had a local wedding for everyone who couldn't attend the destination. Both ceremonies were late by over an hr. The couple are low brow cleetus types with main character syndrome.

The wife got an earful for a month

 

[Contempt]

If one day I decide to get marry,
It will be at the church next to the stripclub.

Yeah... we all know it's because you'll be drunkenly marrying one of the strippers sherbro.